My friends were accused of child abuse

When you do not commit anything that bad, even if someone reports, the things would come out right for you - that is what should happen and I am happy that such things happen at your place. I am worried if that would have been in India, the couple would have had to face so many problems. Fortunately, I havent been reported yet and I think there is no such thing that I have done so far for which anyone would report me. But yes, I was at a party a few years ago (sometime in 2005) and the neighbors had called in the cops just because they thought it was late night and we were playing loud music in the garden. Though such things are common in many places here, but then, I think no one complaints. But then, these neighbors did. The cops did arrive and told us to either close down or at least stop the music. They did not take much of action as in the party there were some people who were related to more influential people. However, the host was good and they politely stopped the music. And asked us to get inside and continue.

my aunt was report for kidnapping her granddaughter whom she raised since birth... her son (my cousin) told his girlfriend that he was going to break up with him and she immediately went to the social workers to go to my aunts house and get her kid... she didnt even ask my aunt for her kid first. after years of negotiating with her... my aunt was able to get her granddaughter back... it seems like her mom just took her out of spite and didnt take good care of her... at 9 years old, she acted as her new sister's babysitter. the doctor said she is undernourished and has chronic cold which could have easily been treated if given the right medicine

Wow!! This would be hard, especially if you knew you were good parents. Good thing the Social worker came on a Good day and took time to believe them instead of having someone that would not care no matter how good you are to your kids. I have heard of some just being out to prove something, and it is bad. There are people out there, especially people I work with, who are always accusing me of being Racist, and then also making Cruel mean White jokes that are actually degrading. Makes me wonder who they think they are by doing this, and nothing you do can prove anything different. They are always the ones going up like a kindergartner tattling on someone, or you any chance they get as well. Reminds me of the Teachers pet who could never do no wrong that everyone HATED.

There are big and little devils scattered all over the place doing nothing good by just messing up anyone's life. Let them do what they care about and see if they don't die slowly with envy...lol

Yes people did report me as well years ago. Actually it was my ex husband. Not willing to pay for the children and while I was trying to work (20 hours a week) and manage he claimed I was not taking good care of them. Some years later someone did because of the fact I should have many cats locked up in my shed. I had no cats at all. Later I found out it was the new wife of my (ex) father in law. As I moved to an other place neighbours complained about my dog. Later I discovered they were the ones Climbing over my gate, setting the dog free! A while ago someone called the police (again) about the dog. Ofcourse there was nothing going on. A friend and her husband were reported (you can do this over here anomynous same if it comes to animal abuse) about child abuse of their daughter. A social worker did show up many times. Just once won't do it over here. In the end the case was closed but... they keep/save the report till their youngest child is 18 years old! This means that if some ... is reporting them anomynous again they might loose their children forever. Most interesting thing/fact is that you seldom see a social worker show up where they are really needed. Same with the so called animal molesters. I think the biggest part of these people are way ruder as we are plus they won't let them in (kick those social workers, animal rescuers) out.

So far me and my family never experienced such incident but when I got married I sort of experience this. It's my husband's granny, she's very sensitive with the noises made by our neighbors. It's actually just a kid who's making noises but when granny finds it disturbing already she would call a police and ask them to check our neighbors. My husband doesn't like this because she makes enemy but she doesn't listen.

That must have been very scary! I am glad nothing like this has happened to me, it would feel very nerve wracking and frustrating.

hi Porcospino mo I can be happy to say I have never been reported for child abuse at all.thats terrible for someone to do to your friends when they were innocent. Maybe it was someone whom one of thm might have had words with.. some people are just born mean I think.They truly awful to m ke a false report like that