Is life is really this unfair?!!!
By austee
@Austee (131)
February 11, 2013 7:27am CST
I do not know where to go. Just recently I got married. And when I gave birth. Everything change. This is a long story but to cut it down. Here is it.
My mom said that she will take care of all our needs. He asked my husband to quit work. So that she could have someone to be with for all her transactions in her business. Then my husband resigned. As for me, I took care of the baby. Then one day, we wake up with nothing. My mom having her new companions, we were sent out from the house. And I do not know how to start. I am homeless.
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9 responses
@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
28 Aug 15
Sorry for your experience, but there is nothing wrong for your mum to find new companions, though it would have been better if you had been informed prior to her decision. As younsters, you'd better stand on your own instead of relying on others. Maybe your mum can provide you some termporary help before you settle down on a new and better execution.
@mrswhitfield (2044)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 13
Why that happen? why suddenly your mom sent you out of the house? Where do you live now with your baby and your husband? I am so sorry for your situation. That is why I declare myself to not depend on my family support when I finish my degree, I want to take care of myself no matter how many times my uncle and other family relatives call me and offering me to live with them if I find job in the city where they live. I don't want something like that happen to me. I hope everything will be normal again for you and your little family. God bless you dear..
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
21 Feb 13
Why did your Mom insist on your husband quitting his job? Was she really needing your help that much, and was not worried about how you would survive? Was there more things she was expecting not agreed upon before, or does she just think you and her are not a Good fit, and need you out without a warning. Personally it does sound like she is never going to be happy with what she has, and if you have to be out, look around and make some phone calls and see what options are out there for you.
Wishing you all the Best.
@machatago (385)
• Philippines
25 Feb 13
Wow, that is a very difficult situation and I'm very sorry to hear that. Your mom shouldn't just left you homeless because she knows you and your husband don't have work yet. She should have just suggested to let your husband work again and then when you have some money, the two of you could move into a new home. I think it's a bit rash that she has done that to you, considering she's a parent herself. But I wish you luck and hopefully you can get back on your feet again. I know you will, if you stumble now, you will get back up.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
You mean, your mother chose others over you? How did it happen? Did you have some issues with your mom? Did your mom and husband have a fight? I hope your mom realizes that you need her help more than ever.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
6 Mar 13
hi,
it's very surprising that your mother behaves with you so unfairly.You must felt very sad by your mother's behavior. You have a baby and your husband has no job and you are homeless. You are going through very difficult situation. But be brave. Your husband will get a job soon and everything will be alright. When god sends us on hard paths he provides strong shoes.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
Hi austee, I am very sorry about your situation and i know it's really difficult but have faith in yourself and to you husband, one of these day i know you will find away to figure out what to do in this situation. As you mention your husband had a job before for sure he will can able to find a new one very soon.
@Ashu1970 (63)
• India
12 Feb 13
I am surprised how it can happen so suddenly. I am sorry the things left you homeless. But I think, there must have been some indications about deterioration of relations. It was you husbands responsibility to share with you such things and to make some adjustments/alternative arrangements to secure your future.
Don't let frustration overpower you. Be positive, Strive hard with whatever little is left with you. I know it is very difficult to come out of a situation like this. But always keep in mind that you yourself can do this and no one else can do this for you. Always remember "God helps those who help themselves"
Good Luck
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
12 Feb 13
Hey Do not think like that. sometimes we do mistake and we can not blame it on the life that life is unfair... just look at your baby. I do not know how old she or he is but just see when baby fall down what will do ? she or he will maybe cry and but... will STAND up again till will learn how to walk propertly.... Right?
life has up and down if once we fall down then that is the time to stand up strongly and Yes You can becuase you want and till you want You can achieve your desires... that was just a experience and with that you can have a better life. always think before any decisions in life. everything will be alright if you believe it and if you want ...