Is it suppose to work this way?
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
United States
February 11, 2013 8:28am CST
Have you noticed that a few Christians act as though if they promise to give something up that Jesus will grant a greater wish of theirs. Is it suppose to work that way? To me an outsider it makes Jesus seem like a wishing well! I just don't get it.
I need your help. Do you believe that you have to give up something you cherish for Jesus to answer your prayers.

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@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
12 Feb 13
you are only to wish for things that can be obtained by simple means not wealth
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
14 Feb 13
Some ask for more shallow things. I think one can ask for anything but sometimes the answer is no.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
13 Feb 13
we as people ask for homes money a long happy life but when we ask for things it is to be becuse you are in need of them not becuse you want them
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
11 Feb 13
Because of our animal-bodies.
When I say we have 'animal-bodies,' I don't mean to say that our bodies are not human; but rather that our bodies' LOGIC is 'less than human'---i.e. that it only believes what it can physically sense; that no matter how many times our human minds tell these bodies that 'all this will pass away' and that there are all thes plans for rebuilding the world in the future, our bodies can only live in this current moment.
Our bodies feast on the roadkill on the highway, even if the highway is leading us directly to the High Palace's gourmet feast. So we need tales of the gourmet feast to give our minds the power to pull the hungry body away from the roadkill on the highway.
Sorta like when Jesus said to save up your treasure in Heaven (for wherever your treasure is, there your heart will be also). You save treasure in Heaven by giving it to your brothers-&-sisters under 'god' (whichever god you-&-they both believe-in).
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
12 Feb 13
That's the whole point. Why save treasures for a place you are not even sure you get to. wouldn't it better to pursuit your place here , now! If your heart is there with the treasure and you believe it is in heaven then why not die as early as possible? I just don't get it. besides telling people to give their money to others, without it coming from the goodness of their hearts, sounds like robbery to me.



@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
13 Feb 13
If the Only way to get to Heaven is to be Christian, then about half of us are Not going. Worse , if All the Christians can't be let in until All of us agree to become Christian then No one will get in. even worse if enough people believe this then they will have to start killing all the non Christians so there will Only be Christians on this earth. This sounds familiar . Didn't the Nazis try this before, rule over everyone and kill those that are different? Is this why some Christians try to bully others to convert? The way you explain it, it isn't out of love , it is out of fear of not getting into heaven. Well i guess they better kill me because I can't and Won't be a Christian.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
12 Feb 13
First of all, Heaven isn't a place you can get to. If it were, Science would've discovered it in the stars & would be sending people there even as we speak.
So in short, you DON'T 'go there when ya die.' What it is: when you Rest-In-Peace, you have clarity-of-mind to realize you WERE there the whole time you were alive and -were happier when your actions patterned-after the 'Kingdom of God' (which is more like 'the atmosphere of the rules of Heaven' than 'the terratory (sp?) on a map' ... and 'pattern' is a word I found in the etymology of "formula," along with the words "patron" & "father").
If you're surrounded by people who believe that they will 'go to Heaven when they die'--people so-indoctrinated that not even a full-blast blare of Reason will knock them out of it--then explain it like this: Under Jesus' command, you love everybody; if someone you love is not allowed to go with you to Heaven, you will feel sorrow for them; there is no sorrow allowed in Heaven---so you cannot go to Heaven until everyone Our Father loves is there as well, can you?
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@matersfish (6306)
• United States
13 Feb 13
I want to respond to this discussion and to a response I read.
To the response I read: Things not only look different from the outside, but also from the inside. Even people who describe themselves as Christians are often at odds as to what scripture means, what Jesus means for them or does for them, etc.
How lucky a person must be that their particular way of viewing religion is the right way of viewing religion and everyone else, the other 6+ billion people, are wrong.
And to your discussion specifically: I've heard many Christians contend that the power of prayer works and that, if genuinely asking Jesus to appear to you, he will. So if Jesus is one's personal lord and savior, I don't see where a trade-off is out of the question to an extent. I mean, it's already a trade-off. There's no disputing that in Christianity. Take Jesus into your heart as your personal lord and savior, become saved. That's the ultimate in trade-offs.
According to many Christians I've personally spoken to, Jesus has healed them or their loved ones, helped them beat addiction, helped them pay bills, etc. And, of course, this was always in exchange for something, if only for loyalty.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
14 Feb 13
It is perfectly normal to know what is good for you and Know your path is right, For You. The problem comes along when you assume Everyone Must follow your same path or they are either stupid or less human. All paths to G-d are correct. you just have to pick the one Right for you.
I don't see the trade off. You love and worship Jesus , the least He can do is help you in your hours of need. It isn't like he is some wise guy saying , give this, this , and this up and Then I'll help you.
@matersfish (6306)
• United States
13 Feb 13
Difference:
1) I don't claim to know anything for sure.
2) I don't attempt to mold other people's lives to fit my personal beliefs.
Have a nice day.
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@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
13 Feb 13
So, you think you are right and all those who believe what they believe are wrong. What IS the DIFFERENCE? The world is full of people who think their way of thinking is the right way. Why else would you believe something unless you believed it was the right way to believe? Of course each of us think we are right.
Even you.
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@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
12 Feb 13
no, it is not suppose to work that way.
Mankind is like a spoiled child. Expecting the parent to give whatever they ask.
Jesus taught that we are to ask everything with faith, and to be sure what we ask is within the will of God - sometimes the answer is no, or wait.
Jesus taught that we are to expect trials and tribulations, he said to 'take up your cross and follow me'. We are to give more than we get. We are to love others more than self. Our hearts must be free of pride, and other sins if we are to expect even to be heard. We are to forgive all evil against us before we even come in prayer before his throne.
So, if there is ANYTHING we must give up it is our pride and our sin. Then we will be heard. HEARD...not coddled. 

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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
13 Feb 13
Thanks. In this paragraph I now Know I'm correct. I can Never be a Christian.I'm not carrying any cross. I can not follow Jesus Because I take pride in the good And the Evil I do. I do not forgive the evil done to me or the ones I like or love. So He won't hear me so why pray to Him. I'm out and always be out! I thought so. Thanks.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
13 Feb 13
but before you worry . I'm not with Jesus. I'm with His vengeful, Father. So far so Good. He seems to let me get what I want and need.... so far.

@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
15 Feb 13
I thought they did this to thank G-d , not appease Him.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
17 Feb 13


@silvercryst340v3 (203)
• Philippines
11 Feb 13
I have three opinions about this: Yes and No
Yes if its in a right notion. For example we have to give up our sin (and repent) by asking Him to forgive us (1 John 1:9). God won't hear us if we keep on sinning (see Isaiah 59:2). God won't answer a prayer without hearing it yet. We also have to give up our doubts (Matthew 21:22).
No if its in a wrong notion. For example I have to give up my $5000 to for God to give me $500000. We were warned by James to be careful in our prayers in James 4:3.
I've seen some Christians vowed to God to give their something like 90% income to the church offerings and mission and only keep %10 if God will make their business successful (i.e. Quaker Oats, Colgate, Ford). I believe this could be but I've never seen any Bible story which is identical to this. Anyway, this is between them and God.
We also have to understand that the world (outsider) don't see us the way wee see ourselves and God. I think Jesus is more than just a wishing well. In 1 Peter 5:7, "Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you." We don't wish to Him, but we pray to Him and there's a big difference between a wish and a prayer.
God bless!
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
11 Feb 13
What is the difference between a prayer and a wish? To me they are the same.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
12 Feb 13
Worship is a big deal? I believe you choose whom to worship or not. Either way wishes are granted.
@silvercryst340v3 (203)
• Philippines
12 Feb 13
Prayer involves worship while a wish doesn't.
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
11 Feb 13
For me it doesn't work that way...for me you believe and live your life like He wants you to...your heart is filled with joy from having faith...and you spread the joy. Being thankful everyday is another part....thankful for what you have...
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
12 Feb 13
I'm screwed. I don't live " as He wants me to". plus I have faith but it doesn't bring me joy. but I am thankful for all the things I have.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
17 Feb 13
G-d didn't set Me up to "fail" He messed up when He destroyed Eden. I say I'm screwed looking at my life through the Christian prism. I don't have Christ , therefore I'm doomed. Isn't that how it goes. To me I maybe hell bound but I get to be me , not a little liar.
@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
15 Feb 13
perhaps if you stopped looking at God as someone who would set you up to fail, that would help you find some joy in your faith?
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@Adoniah (7512)
• United States
11 Feb 13
It has long been a christian and catholic belief that sacrifice is a way to open communication channels with the christ figure...The catholics used to wear "hair shirts" to create constant suffering and thus make themselves closer to the christ figure...They also used to flog themselves...same purpose. Same sects still do these things.
Lent is a classic time of penitence where christians give up things they like to do penance for their sins and to get closer to the christ figure.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
13 Feb 13
I thank G-d I am not a Christian! See if I'm in pain Because of a G-d on a cross, I will stay as far away as I can from Him! I'm not into pain. Silly me, I thought G-d is there to ease your pain not add to it.

@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
15 Feb 13
all people suffer, whether they want to or not. Why not view that suffering (that cannot be avoided) as an offering to God, as a way to identify with others, love them more for the common suffering?
I think of the parable of the potter and the clay. The clay does not say to the potter, why do you do me this way? lol The clay submits to the potter's hand, is formed into a pot, and placed in the fire for hardening, and then becomes a useful vessel. If it was not placed in the fire and remained just clay...what good would it be?
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@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
11 Feb 13
others so called christians use that to get more members because more members means more money for them.avoid people using God with promises of good life or betterlife,more blessings and anything that coincides with money.
there is more to God than any wishes.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
13 Feb 13
Agreed. And there are more versions of G-d Than Jesus. It is up to everyone to pick which version og G-d to worship and be faithful.

@kourdapya (923)
• Philippines
12 Feb 13
Jesus is not a genie. Jesus in fact said that we must seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all this things shall be added unto you. I think that we must do God's will first, and God will be the one to shower the blessings that we need, not the ones that we want.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
13 Feb 13
I feel sorry for those who go to church and pray for all the riches they want. The answer is going to be no.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
11 Feb 13
Thats what I mean about religion. None of it makes any sense. What can one give up that would give them a better shot at going to so called heaven? Do what you want. After all, we will all be in that box at some point. Enjoy now, because you may never get another chance.
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@Hopefull90 (921)
• United States
11 Feb 13
We may be doing something that is not good for us and against God's will. He may not answer us until we overcome what we are doing that is against His will. We as parents may do the same thing with our children.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
13 Feb 13
So like a pi$$ed off parent , G-d uses the silent treatment? Wow! The problem is us humans may not do what He wants us to do. We are Stubborn enough to keep doing the same thing and keep praying. I always thought He answers all prayers but sometimes the answer is no.
@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
15 Feb 13
Eve the Torah says you must ask according to God's will. A pissed off parent? IF God is GOD, if HE is capable of Creating and sustaining all things, is it not HIS RIGHT to expect we do as HE says. LIKE a PARENT who pays the bills is right to expect obedience to their rules? We were given a choice. We choose to disobey or obey. And if GOD IS GOD, then HE has a right to give or withhold blessings.
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@debrakcarey (19887)
• United States
15 Feb 13
forgive the typo...should have read...EVEN the Torah.
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
12 Feb 13
you recieve what you believe... that is the way the universe work. If you think that way so you are right and will get result from that. opposite of that also is true... some people believe in things which bring luck for them and they really recieve even if that thing does not have any luck power... they recieve because they strongly believe it works for them... that is all depends on our believes and thoughts.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
13 Feb 13

@mondaylover (183)
• Poland
17 Feb 13
I highly doubt that Jesus grants any wishes whatever you give him something in return or not. Thinking that way would be very naive of Christians. However Jesus watch over people and they have the right to pray for his protection. It's more like spiritual support than any material hepl though. And you don't have to give up anything for Jesus if you don't want to. If you're living peacefully your life and don't cause others any harm then you should make it out to Heaven. At least I belive so.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
17 Feb 13
I believe my G-d is there for support and help, not to give out gifts.
@urbandekay (18278)
•
11 Feb 13
Sometimes things look different from the outside
all the best, urban
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
11 Feb 13
They always do. that is why I'm not Christian and curious.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
14 Feb 13
Hi sarahruthbeth, There are many different beliefs within Christianity, and yes some believe that Jesus will grant them special favours if they do certain things. Others feel that they have to do nothing but believe in Jesus. There are however, Christians who try to live in peace with everyone, knowing that we are all one regardless of what we believe. Blessings.
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@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
12 Feb 13
I hate that kind of thinking. I hate it because I had been infected with that and thankfully I had learned to let go of that. People who believe that probably don't know that we can summon abundance if only we put our heart and soul to it.
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
12 Feb 13
what you believe and follow you will receive that. it is all depends on our thoughts and believing things... some people they believe to something very commong and useless bring luck for them and they really get luck. Is that simple thing make luck? of course no but their thought and strong faith makes that lucck for them. I think that is also same. it is all about the way of our strong or weak believness.
