How do you know he is the person that you want to marry?

Everything in life is a a gamble. When you feel that the person you are with is someone that you think you want to spend the rest of your life with, then take the risk. You will never know if he is really worth if or not. In my experience, when my husband was still my boyfriend we have never thought of our future together. We just take one day at a time. But then, I got pregnant just a few months before graduation and everything just came in an instant. I gave birth, then got married then had our graduation then we were living in one roof....Well, I love him and all those instant events just made both of us stick with each other. And now it has been 19 years since.

Thanks for this discussion, lol i was married long back in 1966, it was arranged marriage based upon horoscopes of the bride and groom, it works fine, you wont find failures or divorces.