If things were just as simple like here in Mylot, I’d be more happier
By andak2007
@andak2007 (3229)
Philippines
February 13, 2013 5:26pm CST
Been cleaning discussions here in Mylot for couple of hours now, resolved all the unresolved issues even from 5 and 6 years ago, yeah believe me they are still here waiting for me to resolve. Now all that’s left are the new discussions that I have started and they need to wait a little longer for me to resolve them and award the best response. Lately also I only reaped 1 best response so far, so that means I have to make my responses more informative and helpful too.
Here in mylot, my life is easier, clearer, friends response right away, and I can even pour my heart out and vent out as much as I care, yeah I get judged at times, received harsh comments at times too but at least things are the truth here and so much more simplier.
How I wish real life follows suit just like here in mylot right? If only our real offline friends will tell us things straight out to our face what their thoughts are, husbands more honest and responsive and issues get resolved right in time so that we move on to other discussions right?
Cheers to mylot!
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9 responses
@govenu (90)
• India
14 Feb 13
I can understand what you are telling. Yes, life would be even more happier if the people around us were as genuine as the people here on mylot. Here, even though we do not know one another, we really are genuine enough when we are responding to some one's discussion. There is no way we are faking anything because if we are not interested, we really do not respond to it. We just ignore it and nobody really even know that we have ignored something.
But in real life, we are always waiting for people to respond to us, because, it so happens most of the times that, people are not as instant in their responses when we are going through something bad in our life and they really feel easily bored when we have to share our sorrows. That is when we start feeling lonely and thanks to mylot. I never really feel lonely because, if I am going through something bad, I will pour my heart out here and I get some sympathies and empathies and really comforting responses instantly from all our mylot friends.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
hi there andak! wow.. so you have also thought of cleaning up your discussions! ha ha I have done this myself and over the last couple of weeks i was really not doing anything other than resolve my discussions and it took me two weeks to go over them one by one here in mylot so that i could respond to all those i have not responded to and pick the best one. :D but that is rewarding, its great to see that my unresolved discussions have been down to the latest as well. :D
But yeah, its pretty simple here in mylot and if everyone would just get along well everytime, i think all would really be doing great. and yes there could be disagreements but after a few discussions, all would just be done and over with he he
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@andak2007 (3229)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
actually cleaning it up here in mylot and then next in real life, so that things will be easier and smooth running, i hate it when i get stuck.
@Lucky12 (767)
• United States
14 Feb 13
Yeah I understand what you are saying. There are people out there that do not really care that much. I like it here and I like helping others if they need help. I think that you came to the right place, because there are a lot of people here that respond to someone else with genuine care and they have no problem helping others. 
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@echoforever (5180)
• United States
14 Feb 13
some don't know how to be forward in life like we can be here in myLot, some also don't know how to be curteous either. 
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
14 Feb 13
nice to know you have cleared the back log -- resolves all old issues. that is really good. you are encouraging many paople. advantage is we can come in whenever we have time and we want some solace and comfort from others. good day.
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@andak2007 (3229)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
been gone for 5 years, wow that was a long time never realized it and when we come back, it feels like as if we never really left...old friends are still here, well most of them.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
13 Feb 13
Hi andak!
What you said is true. More than the earnings that I got from this place, I came here in order to relieve the stress I got from my everyday work. This is where my friends are and could help me if ever I got some problems. They don't even complain, and they give advice for whatever problem that I encounter.
Have a nice day!
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
mylot can serve us two ways. when emotions are still high, we can vent it here and receive sympathy, support and suggestions. then we can face the person/s involved or situation in a calm and controlled manner.
we can also present our plans or proposals here and receive the pros and cons of it, like if changes we want in our work, etc. it always helps to receive viewpoints from other people so you are prepared when you finally decide to do something.
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@andak2007 (3229)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
you can vent it here without hurting other people's feelings rather than facing the person in question while emtion is still very high then regrets will come in later.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
14 Feb 13
Its good to go through the discussions when you want to do that. Some don't do this at all is probably why you have only received one best response in your history in myLot. Its not essential but anice feature for myLot. I always feel good to have abest response chosen. I only received one. 
@jirojoyman (458)
• Indonesia
14 Feb 13
yeah that's right buddy. our responses needs to be more informative so other's can awarded as the best response.but the important thing is how to response as good as possible.
@aqirock (855)
• Malaysia
14 Feb 13
that's great that you already clear your older discussion with marking best response but I do have problem here to choose best respond cause the best respond in next comments after the person first comments but there's no button to the next comment to mark as best response, well seem like they will stay there as unresolved lolz, anyway wish you a good day, cheers!
@andak2007 (3229)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
it will be resolved later on when your are ready to award it, it took me good old five years..LOL!
