single lady ;-)

South Korea
February 14, 2013 1:59am CST
Someone ask me for a date tonight (ayeeeeeeee) but I don't know if I'll go out with him or not?? He's been courting me since last year, the problem is that I don't have any feelings for him... I actually ignore all his texts and emails....Oh my!! should I go or not???? I want to try but....... can you help me, help me please?
6 responses
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
If he’s courting you since last year then you already know that he doesn’t stand a chance on you. But if you would like to try then you can always have a date with him. Just don’t make him feel that there is any hope for you and him if you sure don’t like him.
• South Korea
14 Feb 13
well I guess,, i need to be honest with him so he can look for another girl whose worthy of his love ;-) ...thanks!
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
16 Feb 13
that's right. but sometimes even how many times you tell that to a guy he still wouldn't listen. sometimes they even wait even if you already have a boyfriend... so have you went out on a date with him?
@yrallih (147)
14 Feb 13
I think you should consider going out with him. Just give it a try. :)
• South Korea
19 Feb 13
I tried but there's really nothing special I feel for him,, no spark indeed!
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
WELL dear, going out on a date doesn't mean that you like him already. Maybe you can go out like a friendly date.... Hmmmmmm... but why is it that you don't like him?? Or maybe you are expecting someone else to ask you out that's why your doors are not open to other people??? If you are single, why not try it! It would be fun you know !!! By the way welcome to MYLOT....
• South Korea
14 Feb 13
ha ha ha!!! Very well said..... Ms. dianon....yeah you're right i'm expectig someone but I don't know know If he's gonna ask me out as he would always tell me he has ..........he he...but I tried it many times but there's really no spark!!so don't want to waste my time and his time for nothing he he..!! etchos!!!
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
14 Feb 13
You said he's been courting you since last year, and you don't have any feelings for him. Then I don't think it is right for you to go with him on a date when you no intentions of actually trying it out with him. Just refuse gently and make it known that you will never see him beyond friendship. Just because yo are single on valentine's day doesn't mean you have to have someone to take you out on a date. You can still go out and have date with your girl friends, or your family, right? Valentine's day is a day of the celebration of love. And our family and friends have been loving us for long.
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
14 Feb 13
Welcome to mylot MHernandez. congratulations on making your first discussion. That's really nice that you got invited out by a guy, it is okay to go out with him if you want to however you should only do this if you are ready for the consequences. If i were you though, i wouldn't go because i already know deep inside that i dont like the guy, i wouldn't want to bite something off what i couldn't chew and i have a feeling that you going out with him might spark up something that will make him think that you are leading him on. There is no point and if the guy isn't clear about what is in store for the both of you, you just might end up hurting each other. But be sure that if ever you make a decision wether to go with him or not, you have to stick to it, there is nothing worse than developing feelings for someone who liked you before but has already seemed to move on.
• South Korea
15 Feb 13
nice advice...thanks!..
• India
4 Apr 13
you can go for your date and see how he is, if you like it or not,, so you can go and check things... good luck