Your first Heartbreak? =(
By heleighna
@heleighna (102)
Philippines
February 14, 2013 7:35am CST
Had my heart broke for the first time when i was 17, i was so in love with my boyfriend, and i found out that he's also going out with another girl..and he already had a 2 year old daughter with that girl,hmm, so sad.. coz i really think we're so good together.
I suddenly realized he was just playing with me. It makes me laugh at times when i remember being so damn crazy about him, and how i cried a river because of what i found out.. hehe.. Good thing i have a really helpful group of friends that helped me cope up with that heart break..
How about yours? And how did you move on? =)
8 responses
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
14 Feb 13
My first heartbreak was when I was in college and this guy was going in another university. I also thought we're good together but it turns out he's got lots of girlfriends from different colleges and universities. He five-timed me! Oh well, since we are not really too serious about it, it didn't really scar me badly. I was hurt bad, I admit because he cheated but since I have my studies to keep me busy, plus the board exams coming up, it helped take my mind off of him.
@heleighna (102)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
Hmmm, college guys are fond of doing this huh, he must be really good looking to have different girlfriends in different Universities? urrrrggghh..
@aqirock (855)
• Malaysia
14 Feb 13
just broke up with my BF a year ago, well the reason is cheated of course was cry about that but suddenly I just woke up and think it have nothing to do with that, there's no reason for cry for someone that don't love me, so I keep move on and not thinking about it anymore. Anyway wish you can through it and keep on moving with your life
@heleighna (102)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
Well, cheating is really a common reason. hehe.. Have moved on like years ago.. hehe.. sometimes our past heartbreaks are just like a laughing stuff in our talks now a days.. especially the young love.. hehe.. thanks aqirock =)
@kourdapya (924)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
I don't know if I would consider myself lucky for not being able to experience being broken hearted because I only had one boyfriend and he became my husband. During our relationship, we never broke up then got back together. We never had a major fight that broke my heart.
I think that the experience will teach you to become a better and stronger person, although you have been hurt so bad. I guess that happens to a lot of people. Look on the brighter side of life, and hey, you're very young, life is beautiful and so are you!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
21 Feb 13
My first heartbreak was from my first love. I was young and so much in love with the person. Somebody called me up and told me stories that the reason why my boyfriend courted was all for a bet. I was devastated about it that I just tried ignoring him since then. It was so painful that it took me years to really get over him. We weren't together for that long but the love I had for him was so much.
23 years after, i saw him at Facebook, said our hi's and hello's....he called me up and we jokingly talked about "US". Then I asked him if what I learned back then was true. He denied and said he loved me too but he didn't bother to confront me when I just went away coz he thought that I maybe was not ready for a relationship coz we were young. But apparently, the person who called me was his friend who happens to like me , too that time.....
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
15 Feb 13
I had my first heartbreak when I was 16 years old and it has marked me deeply. I obviously became obsess with that guy. He treated like a dog but still I continue to love him. He flirted with other girls right in front of my eyes and yet I still found it my little fragile heart to forgive him. I was still young and stupid at that time, but not anymore. On the other hand, because of this heartbreak I became stronger and learned that we cannot have everything we want to in life.
@prettysexybrainy (189)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
Hi there, Don't worry you are'nt alone! HAhaha, I've been there and i thank GOd for that experienced, made me wiser and stronger. We are all ignorant as first timers, but i hope you learned from that involvement. Some guys lie a lot, just to get you. Know how to catch them lying. If you doubt, don't. However, We aren't [perfect at all, just take all the negative experiences as wisdom. MWah!
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Feb 13
I had my first heart break at the very same age as you. The boyfriend I had at the time I was crazy about. But then I had to move far away from him with my family and we decided it would be best to end it because long distance was too hard. So, I was heart broken.
But soon after that, I found my husband and I realize now the reason the ex and I ended was so I could find my soul mate.
@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
I felt love with this man when I was 30 years old. Would you believe it took me so long to be in love? :-) I knew I love this man and I know the feeling is mutual however we are really not meant for each other for some limited reasons. We had parted ways and lost of our communication and when he came back I was married already. I just found out that he called me three times on my wedding day however my phone was with my wedding coordinator. And after three years he got married too on the day my first born came. Of course, I'm happy with my son yet I was struck too to hear he got married already. Well, at least life is fair with us that we both have families now. Still, lingers at times. :-(