Feeling Blank... :?

@maurya83 (923)
India
February 14, 2013 8:07am CST
wanted to make some posts on mylot, tried many times from morning but couldn't somehow.. I dont know why i am feeling all blank..have read so many discussions and really wanted to participate but couln't understand what to write. :? why this happen sometimes? do you feel like this ever?
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14 responses
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
15 Feb 13
Its rare for me to feel completely blank while in myLot in fact tonight I've had a couple discussions at once open with different thoughts floating in my head. Unless I can't relate at all to anything ... sometimes that happens but is very very rare. I will dig until I find something I can relate to. I love myLot when I can relate to topics and share my thoughts.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
15 Feb 13
next time i will also try to dig untill i find something to relate with :) thankyou echo..
• United States
15 Feb 13
Sometimes that's what it takes. I will look through all the tabs and then if I relaly can't find anything I'll search... I really dislike to be without a topic I can relate to.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
18 Feb 13
some old members talk about their friends and family, i can understand the matter what they want to share but cant think what can i reply to them as i dont know them personally..
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Feb 13
I think you are just lethargic, from lack of sleep or too much sleep. That happens to many people. But after they have eaten a hearty meal, they will be again perked up, my friend.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
18 Feb 13
Oh yes, i think you have overdone Mylotting.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
18 Feb 13
:)
@maurya83 (923)
• India
16 Feb 13
i am eating well, sleeping well..i think i am overdoing mylot for last few days..thankyu simplyd.
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Feb 13
Sometimes when there are other things on my mind I can't find something to say or to even post. We all have our moods. There are some subjects I don't care to answer because I cause unrest and bad feelings. I have some very hard opinions and some people don't like that. But on just the day-to-day discussions I can usually find something to say. Either from my own experience or in response to what a Mylotter has written.
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
15 Feb 13
Yes, I agree.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
15 Feb 13
thankyou celticeagle, sometimes we dont mean to be hard to anyone but he/she take it as harsh..depends on next person's mood and thinking..
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@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
Yeah, sometimes I experienced the same thing too. I thought I am in the mood to start a topic for discussion but once I have written something to start with, my mind goes blank and I can not think of anything that goes with what I want to talk about. Even in posting comments it do happens to me too. It happens to me mostly when I really want to reach my payment quota for the month.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
16 Feb 13
when payment comes in mind, it automatically removes the focus on creativity and topic.. thankyou stanley :)
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
Everybody tires up eventually, most especially if you do things over and over. So there are "off" days. Don't push your self too much in trying to make one if your heart and mind isn't in it. So just try to make discussions when you are inspired.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
15 Feb 13
thankyou jenny, i need a break.. :)
• United States
15 Feb 13
Sometimes I feel I"m having off days also. I tend not to find much I can respond to well. I've tried to just keep digging on days like that, sometimes it will help.
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
It's a normal thing I think, I had been there...and constantly have an Interest block.. I mean...like you lose interest on all the posts, and you couldn't think of anything to post. Like, you lost the heart to respond to discussions even if it is to your liking. I believe everyone get to experience that once in a while...however in my case, I'd been gone from myLot for months... Well..I've been busy in school as well so it's pretty understandable that I wouldn't get to spend much time being online and participating here.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
16 Feb 13
yes study first :) thankyou jhustinian..
@lampar (7584)
• United States
14 Feb 13
May be you have too much information inside your head, after read so many discussions here before you decide to start a discussion, it is information overload, it did happen to me sometime. I am just not up to the task. It is fine, just relax, and continue reading, when you are ready and the blank is gone next day or later on, you can always log in again and continue posting and start a new discussion, you don't need to pressure yourself to post and must start a new discussion topic every time you are here, it is not compulsory during mylotting.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
15 Feb 13
:) thankyou lampar..
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
14 Feb 13
Hi Maurya, Happy Valentine's Day. So far I have understood, the reasons may be as follows: (1) Probably your beloved one is not beside you and he might have gone far away from you. (2) Probably you could not sleep well last night. (3) Probably you worked hard and did not eat enough food to recover your calories. (4) You are physically week/sick for any good reason. Have a very nice day.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
15 Feb 13
thankyou for response aminul..:)
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
It happens to me too especially when i ma not in the mood or tired. I think you should walk for awhile and try to get some air to relax your mind. Drinking water and eating dark chocolate will help you to stimulate your mind so that you can able to start a topic and can able participate in every discussion.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
15 Feb 13
thankyou Bhebelen, yes i really need to go outside, i didn't go anywhere for a few days..
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
14 Feb 13
I think most of us have experienced this. Maybe you're just having a downtime, or your creative juices are taking a break. Don't worry too much about it. Once you are already in the mood, you will get those things you want to write about soon enough. For now, maybe you can just read through discussions and see if there's something that you can fully relate to for a start.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
15 Feb 13
thankyou raine :) I am going for some shopping this evening, i am sure it will help..
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
Hello there ! I can relate with that , sometimes i want to write but no topic is getting in my mind , can't figure what am feeling , am i tired , bored ,sad or happy ...just empty !I want to be productive and can't waste time , so have a break for awhile , drink coke and back to desktop , now brain and heart functioning !
@maurya83 (923)
• India
15 Feb 13
thankyou angelpink :)
@Goludipe (59)
• Lagos, Nigeria
14 Feb 13
May be you don't have to disturb yourself much on where there to post or respond, as for me I respond only when I feel like. You just have to take things easy. Happy Valentine.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
15 Feb 13
thankyou for responding goludipe :)
@aqirock (855)
• Malaysia
14 Feb 13
I'm sure everyone feel this, that's why we just really need to participate on discussion that really interested to us, well maybe you some tired, get a some rest and not to think so much, wish you'll fine
@maurya83 (923)
• India
15 Feb 13
yes aquirock, i only perticipate in discussions to which i can relate..thankyou for your response :)
@heleighna (102)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
Yeah sometimes i feel that way too, just blank all the way. This morning i also had the same experience, my brain is just BLANK. Maybe we just need a little inspiration. Have a break.. Have coffee. Maybe go to sleep and dream of something nice. Turn on the television or watch a movie.. Listening to a good music too can be very helpful too. I do this before when i was still teaching, when i'm doing Lesson Plans and when i felt like i just can't think of anything to write, and the ideas i have is just everything but DULL, i gave my self a break.. =)
@maurya83 (923)
• India
15 Feb 13
thankyou for response heleighna :) may be this is because i didn't go outside for many days..