I know this man and this woman
By ArielAhhhh
@ArielAhhhh (126)
China
February 14, 2013 11:53am CST
He is an excellent interior designer and she is an english teacher and just finished her postgraduate entrance exam.
The first time they met was 7 years ago in a party when he suddently talked to her the moment she was going to leave, telling her that he knew her since she was just a children for she was very impressive by her active behavior which made her granny run behind her all the time. But she said she could remember nothing about that and him either.
In the past 7 years they met 4 times and a few days ago the man talked to her again telling her he had a crush on her for a long time and in the past 7 years, he tried every means to perfect himself and earned more money, but now he knows she has a big dream and choose to go further study and wants to go abroad being a chinese teacher for a while.
He said he could not wait for her any more for he has already 31 years old and wants to get married and be a dad. And he begged her for if she could give up the postgraduated study and do not go abroad. Her tears ran down and said, I thought you really love me but now i know you don't, for if so, you would never mind waiting for another 3 years.
Here, i hope every mylotter do not blame for the woman for if you guys know what she has suffered before, you would understand why her dream means so much for her.
3 responses
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
23 Feb 13
I think the ladies deserves to continue her studies and career. She is dedicated to her post graduate studies. She has better prospects abroad. She is right that the man should happily wait three more years. I fully understand why the ladies dream matters so much. I hope that man waits and they lovingly marry in three years time.
@ArielAhhhh (126)
• China
24 Feb 13
Yes, she should. I hope they will be together as well, the man is excellent and probably sometimes love do need time to prove its significance, and time will tell them at last that they are perfectly matching.
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
14 Feb 13
I wouldn't blame this woman at all. She has a dream and a career goal. If this man did truely love her what is another 3 years? As you said they only talked a few times in 7 years so not understanding what his hang up is that she would have to give up everything she worked hard to accomplish for him because of his age.
I think it was selfish of him to even ask that of her.
@ArielAhhhh (126)
• China
15 Feb 13
Yes, you are right and what is another 3 years? I think another thing between them is probably they lack their mutual trust and they just have no confidence in their relationship. There is no wrong for the woman to come true her dream and if for a true love, the man would stand back cheering her up every time she congfronts difficulties and feel frustracted.
@Janurmas (642)
• Indonesia
14 Feb 13
If me, I would not start a relationship and giving hope to a girl but the condition is not supporting. I would never promising something to someone until I really ready to start a marriage relationship. In this case, the man is too selfish and too love his career that the woman. I understand why the woman upset, because the man has promised to marry her, but the fact shows that the man is not loving the woman. The woman should give him up and finding another man that really loves her.
@ArielAhhhh (126)
• China
15 Feb 13
I can see you are a man full of sense of responsibility. But the man never promised to marry the woman and i know the man has fallen in love with the woman secretly for a long time but the woman just knew nothing cuz she was too young and anyway, the man is 7 years older than the woman, probably there is some age gap between them.
