Is it Possible

I think as we grow and mature our expectations change. I know what I thought was love wasn't. I was never more lonely then when I was married. Because it was an awful marriage trust was a huge issue with me. But, when I wasn't looking for anything is when I found something. I enjoy the companionship right now but not in any hurry for it to go anywhere. Maybe that is still a trust issue but taking it slow has given me more then jumping into something that can't handle. In short: We will love several times in our life You can't truely love until you open up and opening up means trusting It's a risk but we can't experience any possibilities if we don't take risks We experience greater love from others when we love ourselves You are young and I don't want to put some bogus statement out there that 'it's never too late' because the more I look at it is when we're ready to truely love a person and them us, that is when we'll stumbled across a person and it will stick.

Dear twin, it is 6am in my country and Im getting ready to work but I want to share something with you. I know how you feel, I've been there before. Well, my love life is not perfect. I thought I had a perfect boyfriend years ago, but then we broke up because we both have a high ego and self pride. The broke up wasn't nice thou, I stopped looking for lover for a while not because I dont believe in love or such thing but the problem is in me...I'm so hard to please, it's hard to find someone that can suits me, Im not good looking and not attractive enough for the guys to look at me. And then I had an accident, I survive but somehow I changed a lot, I have PTSD (Post Trauma Stress Disorder) I feel flat and emotionally numb). This is where I found myself unable to identify emotions, unable to feel it, I feel so distant from everyone. I don't care about relationship or love anymore although sometime I envy those who has found their soulmates, I told myself ready to live as a single for the rest of my life. I want to tell you about someone new in my life, we are not officially in relationship but I feel happy and calm whenever I'm with him. It started when I meet my old friends again, short of reunion, and this guy was and is one of my best friends. I dont know twin, sometime I still feel this emotional numbness but he promised we will cure it together. So dont ever lose hope, perhaps he is someone you never thought for love. I have to go to work. see you.

Don't lose hope, echo. I am sure that the right person for you will come.I am sure it will be all worth the wait.

well, about my story - i am in a stable relationship right now. but i guess, sometimes, the length of your relationship will be misused or shall i say being abused in some way. it is because too confidence in one partner may leads to actuation of being negligence of once responsibility to your partner. so i can say that some of the rumors of the married person is true like the relationship you have with your partner is sibling - like. i guess i am a passionate person, i want to stay sweet and my partner does the same. the spark of love will be as ease like of the first meeting and so. so that is why, i just like to share this thing to everyone

Everyone deserves love, you do too. You deserve to look for it, if that is what you want, but you must be ready to accept it when it comes your way. Its true that there are times where in you might feel very overwhelmed or you might not believe it when you realize that there is a person who actually loves you for who you are and wants nothing more than to be with you, however, you should be able to embrace that unconditional caring with your own. Wrap your arms around them and know that you are a good person. You are worthy of such joy. You deserve not to question everyone who gives you a compliment or tells you that you are really wonderful as you are. You deserve not to think that they might have an ulterior motive towards you. You should realize that you are worth loving because you are ready to love back. Sometimes we can feel so weak but then know that moments of weakness does not make you fundamentally weak, only fundamentally human.

I was in love so many times and it didn't turned out well, now already one year after my last in being love, well not because I'm give up but I have noone that can be tought as a special one, anyway wish you found your truth love

hi echoforever I found my tue love art work he walked in tol help; nme make a s urgical bed. He said"Im the new orderly they sent me t o help; you make this surgical be. He had sparkling eyes and a grin and six weeks larter I married him laughing e es and all lnd ofr better or worse we had 33 years together before he had a sudden fatal heart attack in 1991 so I have been widowed a long time. I was 31 and he was 37 and we had love at first sight and it lasted too. yoy will find y our love one day just wait and see.

When I got married to my husband almost nine years ago, one of my best friends told me that she was jealous of me because I was able to find a good man to spend the rest of my life with and she felt like she was going to be alone for the rest of her life. I assured her that the right person for her was out there somewhere and I was sure that she would eventually meet him. She was lucky enough to eventually meet him and they were married for just over five years before she passed away. Don't give up on love because I really do believe that you will eventually find love in your life.

Hiya echo, Know that feeling but don´t give up as life is love itself. It is always around us though we cannot see the forest for the trees. Only advice I can give you is not to give up try not to focus too much on the other one. We all have broken pieces of friendships, love in our lives. Its a matter of carrying on going forward and its not easy. xxx

I suggest that you keep this discussion stored somewhere. Things change echo; the base changes. A changed base can bring in new possibilities. You need to put in a bit of effort to change that base.

Of course, love is one of the most wonderful thing in life. Everyone has to experience it at least once. Since you already had, don't lose that hope of finding one again. Even if you don't find it, love will find you, just like what I've experienced. I wish you all the luck and may you be happy forever!

If you feel like you are missing out, you find a way to make up for it as soon as possible. Sulking in a corner alone is not gonna help. I know that from experience, haha! I'm a bit of a recluse myself. I think love is possible for everyone. Just because you did not find it yet doesn't mean you won't ever. Losing faith in love is... half failure, so that should be changed too.

-_- you´re to young to think you´ll be a forever alone echo ! Sorry for your lost but things happen right ? I guess it was bad losing it but one day in your backyard you´ll find a wierd guy and you´ll ask yourself o.o is this dude homeless to be in my backyard doing whatever ?

It is not easy to forget someone you love.But you are still capable of finding your love again.The only matter is the Time.Some times you don't marry to the one you love, you marry to the one who is right for you.

In love with someone only a small part of your life. You still have a lot of love, and many other people who love you. Love never goes out while you are alive.

I am happy now with my present relationship! $ years ago I had a boyfriend and we were together for almost 4 years. He was my college boyfriend and we made plans together and I really thought that I will end up marrying him. I don't have any regrets that it didn't happen because I know that God has better plans for me and so my present boyfriend came unexpectedly. Well, I had other bf's first before he came. We have up's and down's sometimes I feel giving up but at the end of the day I realized that he is worth keeping =) I hope you can find yours too.. I know God had reserved the best for you =)