Do you make diffrence between male and female?
@extremefun4fun (2908)
India
February 15, 2013 5:04am CST
It is really hard when I hear some people make diffrences on gender and says well, He is a MAN and he should be Free, he should do whatever he wants, he should enjoy life because he is a MAN... Sorry to say but I am a female the one who is suffering alot to make a MAN for society and in my life, why people make that much diffrence and in their idea Man has right to do whatever he wants and ladies do not have? why? can anybody tell me with the growing tech century why we should suffer from that sort of back and classic mind?
Do you think male and female are too diffrent and MEN have right to do whatever they want and as much as freedom they want?
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10 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
15 Feb 13
If we look back into the history, we can see the trend. See, even now also, we pray to God. Also, while praying or talking about God, we used say 'He' will help, 'He' is almighty, etc. People kept the supreme power as man. I am not arguing for it, but by heriditory or tradition, we had given undue respect, and a dominant position to man and thereby even now it continues.
However, it is not always true. In my opinion, women have/need/want the eqal or 50:50 ratio of importance. Ok, for a better understanding and within a situation where love and care has equal values, I have not doubt the women is getting respect and they are always treated with preferences.
There are typical cases and in many countires, women has much freedom in many matters and if they properly use the freedom and understanding alongwith man, I think it will be a successful attempt and I belief in this modern world, people SHOULD not discriminate women as secondary and man as the primary.
In my life, I always given respect and love to women may be it is known or unknown, mother or sister wife or office friend, or a women walk through the street, I alwys respect them and treat them with equal preference.
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
15 Feb 13
I really like each of your comments and I apprriciate that your Idea is great.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
30 Mar 13
yes, wish all men could think like Thanks1961, he is really kind hearted and so understanding one. God bless him.
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@prettysexybrainy (189)
• Philippines
16 Feb 13
I guess it depends. There are some work that only men can do. On the other hand, about social things, I guess both men and woman are can act the same. Like work to provide family, Be a leader too. I do not an excuse as to men can do cheating and it is okay because they are men. I guess if men can do that women can!. Lol. It is just it hurts more to men when their loveone cheats and they cant take it, since their ego are so crashed by that situation it insults their masculinity. These days, women should be empowered and know that You can reach your goal even no man at your side.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
16 Feb 13
you are right :) I just wish all women cheat and leave their men, I want them to cry :)
@dandan07 (1906)
• China
16 Feb 13
Here many people prefer male to female.
So when a boy was born, he can get celebration, while to the girl, she may get nothing. In a family with several children, the parents will consider to force the girls to support their brother by marriage or money.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
30 Mar 13
I also think that most times girls do care about their parents when they become old. I found lots of families where the old parents are taken care by the girls and their husbands while the boys sometimes does not care of their parents and they go after money and other things.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
30 Mar 13
sometimes, men forget that the one who give him birth was a lady and without a lady he is nothing. I am so sorry for that kind of society , after being in tech life in 2013 still we face that kind of problem, making difference between a girl and a boy. and finally when parents they become old and knows about life more, they come to know the one who was more caring and loving was their girl child...
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@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
males and females are different. seeing the difference does not necessarily mean that one is superior and the other one is inferior. the difference acknowledges the uniqueness and distinctiveness of the two human persons. due to the differences, there are roles that are associated with each other. and incidentally, the roles associated with males are valued more by society than the roles by females. it is time that our society also treats the roles of females as valuable as males.
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
30 Mar 13
that is not good that society has got habit of making more value for males roles. as I see in this country, they are men, who just sit and eat while their wife does all the work of outside of home to earn and inside of home to cook and give birth.... it is not fair in some society. still there are people who look at a lady just as a home servent and there are many people who do not respect or make value for a lady, just they look at her for advantage, it should not be like that while we talk about quality of male and female in society.
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
15 Feb 13
it's fact that each woman must face. we know it's 2013 and both woman and man should have the same position about freedom, but in reality it's rally hard to find. some people always think when man do some "naughty" action is very normal, but woman should be much more polite. especially in Indonesia, woman really have to keep attitude. sometimes we feel unjustice, but that's what we should do
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@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
2 Apr 13
yeah, God made man to protect woman. but doesn't mean man is superior than woman and woman must admit man when they were doing wrong
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
30 Mar 13
that is too wrong, I hope that people mind will change by time and increasing knowledge of what God has made as creator, we all are same, I do not like such of difference.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
30 Mar 13
there are some difference between a male and female, but finally they are equal and each of them has their own right and respect. of course , for example God has given more body power to a man to work and protect his family while a lady is stronger with patient and kind hearted to refresh her man for better work and happier life. but finally it all comes to equality. we complete other one.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
30 Mar 13
I think it is a concept of some places that man is given more freedom and woman should not be. I think it is the mind set of some people in some places. I think some places the people have advanced thinking and treats both men and women are alike. I think it might be the way the people are brought up in the role plays the key to such kind of thinking. I think there are no much difference between men and women in the way they thinking, the personality, etc and other stuffs except some physical changes. I think both should be given equal preference.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
30 Mar 13
it is again all about ignorance of human being to make difference between male and female in some society. I hope that one day, all people will come to understand the real meaning of life and all live happier, what I think is equality of men and women while there are really some things that make difference like, men are more stronger with their body and ladies are better in patient and kind hearted, that is like how they work together , they complete another one, and for that equality appears....
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
31 Mar 13
I also think that women give birth to men and take care of them when child. I think the love and affection of the mother should be there in men and that should make them to behave and respect properly the other girls thinking that all girls will become mother and have children and do take care of their children and men also born from mother.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
30 Mar 13
there are such thing that a man will not be able to do... or take patient for.... like suffering of pregnancy, pain of giving birth, not sleeping and caring a child to make it a man of tomorrow..... men are weak in patient and such thing. while a lady can come over those thing... finally, it is a proud that the one who make a man, is lady.... and men says, it is proud that without a man, lady can not do that.... finally, it is all equality and to complete each other. so I do not see any difference.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
15 Feb 13
I hate hearing that thing too. The guys think that they should be superior over females. And I do not like being treated as such. There should always be equal rights, opportunities and responsibilities all the time.
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
30 Mar 13
yes, we should be equal in all things. there is no difference in that. they are some quality of men that women is somehow less and there are some quality of women that men are less in those quality. but finally, it is for completing each other. men get complete of their less quality with those higher quality of a woman and a lady get complete in those which is less with men. I mean for example, men are stronger with body more that a lady but ladies are more stronger with soul and patient, that is the way they complete another one in difficulties.
@Goludipe (59)
• Lagos, Nigeria
15 Feb 13
Hello!
Well, the reason for some rule that Men can do somethings while Women can't is just for Protection. Most of such rules is just to protect the female gender, since they are more volatile and fragile to some things. Their are some things Men can do that may not affect them emotionally, but if a woman does it she will be disturbed.
I guess it better you understand that, some of this rule difference is only to protect the female gender. One thing I don't support is discrimination, so I respect women. I like to have then around since they tend to be more caring. Just like yesterday, I was feeling bad every other of may Male Friends were just looking at me, but my lady friend came at asked what was wrong. Later, I was happy she came. Women have their strength and weakness, so as men. So don't be offended by such rule, some are just to protect you, while others are traditional or cultural.
Take Care...
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
30 Mar 13
I am agree, and thanks for your nice advice and your understanding. it should be in the way of completing each other.