married or relationship

crossline, hello there! First of all, you get to marry a person because there is love. And having love with someone who also loves you in return means that you both have to be with each other through thick and thin, happiness and sadness, sickness and in health... That's what marriage means. You both learn how to live despite all those things good or bad come along your way. If you don't like to go through that, don't get to marriage. Maybe it isn't your time yet. But don't place someone in there if you don't like to take them seriously. Being in a relationship requires to have respect for each other, trust, love, understanding.... Unless, you two both know you are just playing around...not loving one another...

There's no reason getting married if neither of you are ready yet. One day you may want to and feel ready for it, then that would be the time.

i think it depends on the readiness of each person. though you are still young but you are ready both mental n financial and you have strong desire to get married, i think it's just fine for you to marry your girlfriend/boyfriend. yeah of course getting married at mature age is more ideal for mosy people cos mature age has strong relation with mature attitudes. gettibg marrried is not about spending time with someone along your lifetime or requiring a lot of money but also how to take responsible if we become patents someday. marriage is about how to maintain and how to manage. sounds so hard, doesnt it? lol. but if you ask me which i prefer, i will choose getting married than merely having relationship. getting married, for me, is more honourable than just having relationship.

You have to celebrate your marriage. Share your happiness to others by celebrating your relationship in the form of wedding party. People will recognize you and your mate are a married couple. But, if both of you still cozy being only a relationship, no problem. But having marriage will be a very exciting moment that cannot be forgotten.