Wanting romance..am I asking too much?

There's a beautiful excerpt from an article I read last Valentine's Day, it read: "We can't expect our partners to love us exactly the way we want to be loved. Just because their style of loving is different from ours, it doesn't mean they love us less. We should let them love us in the way they know best." As long as you feel loved, you should be content. As long as he doesn't hurt you and treats you specially, you should appreciate that. Love ends when a person demands for something and complains, instead of appreciating. If you want to feel the things you said, you should motivate him to feel the same. Have a great mylot experience ahead!

First off, Love and Romance is a beatiful thing. I feel that there are so many individuals in the world and no one should be alone, so there is NOT a thing wrong with wanting affection! I personally love the cuddles, kisses, hugs, love and affection. However some guys lack that intimacy/showing affection bounds. He may not know because he hasn't been exposed to it or he may not be comfortable with him having butterflies and the mushy side of him. {And that's ok, it's something that he may have to get accustomed to}.Talk with him and ask him "why does he treat you as if you're one of his guys?". Them begin to explain to him how it makes you feel. No woman wants to feel as if she's more of a buddy to a man, when she's much more. Communication should set the foundation and that's a great start. BEST WISHES!!

If he does not understand what you expect from him, then let him know directly or indirectly. Hopefully, once he gets a hint, he should act accordingly. Even after your hint and communication he does not become romatic, then you may like to give a re-thinking on your relations.

It depends on your partner, if he doesn't understand what you feel right now, then make him understand.. if it still does not work, then I guess this guy doesn't care or love you at all. Don't get me wrong, but its the reality. A guy who is truly in love with you, will listen and know what you feel..

I`d talk to him about what I want if I really care. Many people don`t act as they should because they don`t know what to to. Maybe you could talk about what each of you wants of the other in several situations.