is he having a crush on their help?

I think there is a basis for her fears, because if he is acting so weird like this that it was not him at all.. I might just want to give out "tests" to see if my thoughts of my husband has basis. It is hard to tell for sure but anything unusual a woman would feel right away. often instincts kicking in does tells us bits and pieces of the truths we were never told. She can try to give their household help a day or two of vacation and watch him "react" to her not being around the house. I am sure she would be able to tell the difference and dismiss the idea if there is nothing "wrong" after her doing this.

She needs to talk to the husband and make sure she's not mistaken. This whole thing might be all innocent, but he isn't aware of how is actions are being perceived. If something really is going on the best thing is keep the help and fire the husband.

Having crush is part of life experience. However, it is wrong when it involved a married man. I think it is right to talk things over with the man and then look for ways to bring peace to the home.

Oh..danger danger? Maybe she should settle this while it's still early. In this world where this kind of thing is already very common, I will not tolerate it at all. Maybe it's too early to give malice but where does this kind of thing starts anyway? Isn't it in those small gestures that she had observed?just saying...

Maybe he is attracted to your niece and want her to be a part of his family by marrying her. Since he is attracted to her, is up to your niece that she continue to talk to him or she may avoid him for a moment. In my opinion, she could stay away from his house and family because the longer she stays the bigger the problem will occur. Separating a family is not good. take care and ask her to think wisely.

She needs to get rid of the help. her husband is paying way to much attention to the wrong woman. maybe he could just be being a gentleman and is nice to her to make her feel welcomed, but enough is enough. he is begining to form a crush on the help, if he wants to include her in everything. she either needs to talk to her husband or talk to the maid, and explain to her that whatever is going on between her and her husband is inappropriate. however, she doesn't to be seen as the wife who can't trust her husband, so she is going to have to handle this in a very delicate matter. she can talk to her husband and express her concerns or she can just confront him head on, in front of the maid. her choice.

I'd say that she should keep an eye on both of them. Well, you'll never know if the helper is just trying to be too friendly and has another motive.

Who knows? This situation requires further investigation. She could either be reading too much or there may be some truth to her suspicions. We can't really tell. If this goes on and the wife is bothered by it, she might have to consider letting the made transfer to another work place and they get a new maid...

Hm, he may have a bit of a crush. Or he may just want to be friendly to her so she feels welcome working in their home. Maybe he is just being polite and kind to her!