FRIENDS vs HIM

Why not ask your boyfriend to join you and your friends in your house? Your friends did commit with you first and as such, it is but fair to make that agreement with them. THey are both important to you, but differently but remember that even if we are in a relationship, that doesn't mean that we cannot have a life outside of that relationship anymore. In case your boyfriend doesn't wanna join you guys or can't make it, then you have to tell them that your date with him will have to be rescheduled on a much later date. If he truly loves you I am sure he will understand. As a matter of fact he will be even happy to know that you are going to have some fun with your friends.

you promised to meet up with your friends first and it is hard to get lots of friends together since they got jobs.you boyfriend would understand you,no need to worry about that.

I think you should be able to explain to your boyfriend that you already had plans with friends. He should understand, as long as you willing to be okay when he has a boy's night, too. In life, friendships and romantic relationships are both important. One can, and shouldn't replace the other.

I think he would understand that you put a lot of effort into making sure all your friends could make this date. As said he could always join, but you to cancel I think would be unfair to you. Each couple needs their time with their friends and there is nothing wrong with telling him you can't go out with him because you have these plans.

Why not have tyour date with your boyfriend on an earlier time and then tell the girls to come over around 8pm? I think that would be fine.