Should I WAIT for or LOOK for the love of my life??????????

when someone reach 30+, most of them will be hurry for relationship. it's similar with your situation. in my office, there are some woman who reach 30+ but not married yet. some people talk about them because they're not married yet, but hey....! do you think relationship and married is full all about age?? if you're not ready for new relationship, don't force yourself. enjoy what you have now and don't be hurry. sometimes the best comes late

wait for it. There is already someone out there for you. :)

There is nothing wrong with dating. You need to be able to be found. If no one can find you, then yes you will stay single. However, you DO NOT GET PANICKY. Getting your emotions all jumbled up is a great way to end up with a loser, and have the next 10 years of your life a train wreck. Don't do that.

Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i can understand your situation very well and i know u must be very bad about this. but i think u should leave every thing on the Almighty. U should never feel disheartened and should wait till the right time comes into your life. Have patience. What say?

True love is hard to find but I believe that the right person will come into your life though you are not looking for him or her. I believe in destiny and I believe in God's gift. Do not pressure yourself finding the right guy/girl, just learn how to wait. Age doesn't matter in terms of love.

Instead of waiting for someone come to you,you should look for what kind of man you want.Women are not ashamed of making the first move.Wish you good luck!

I think thirty is still a young age. Besides, marriage is a very serious issue and it will have an effect on your rest life. So it is better to be careful to it and find the right one. So you will be happy to it. The marriage is one of the most important issues for everybody. Perhaps your love is just on the way. So be patient to it.

I say wait for it don't rush it or anything like that. Because worse come you don't want to marry the wrong person. Enjoy being single and who knows the one for you may be right there in your face and not even know it. If someone comes to you and ask for a date, sure go on one and who knows they may be the one. But if you are not feeling them, then don't pursue it any longer. But be patient and the one for you will come a long sooner then you think.

It is good that you go out to meet more people. Then you have more options to know more people. Perhaps somewhere out there, the Mr. Right is just like you waiting for you. You can always be friends and see how things go, if he managed to make your heart beats faster, he could be the right one. All the best and pray that God will send him to you soon.

The love of your life is something very special.If you spend your whole life looking for it you may miss the bigger things in life as well as the love you seek. When the love of your patience of that kind of love is well worth the rewards it brings.

Well, that's too bad. You were picky and didn't give them a chance. Maybe you could have grown to love them if you had. But anyway, you should not force yourself to be with anyone. Just keep your eyes open. Things we chase tend to run away. So why don't we wait and grab it when we see it? the opportunity I mean or you could go out more and look for him yourself. Still I believe that love will find us. We just have to be OPEN. If you turn down opportunities then, that might have ruined your chances of finding love.

oh,, maybe you have a really standards in much cases... For me when you love, there are no standards because, when you love... you just LOVE the person with what ever he has or does not have... YOU don't search LOVE because LOVE will find you in your most unexpected time, and even with the most UNWANTED PERSON... We are destined to have somebody to be with us.... JUST PRAY for that =)

Like that song says, you can't hurry love, you just have to wait... It cannot be forced nor coerced. For the meantime, enjoy being single, mingle, try new hobbies and activities. Expand your social circle to increase your chances of meeting him. But don't focus everything that you do in finding him. Just enjoy, take it easy and pray for patience.

I'm kinda in the same situation like you, I'm 22 years old and is still single and I know some guys who keeps asking why I'm not interested in having a relationship, it's really irritating so I told them I'm not ready yet. I'm going paranoid especially with guys, maybe because of the negative things I see and hear about them especially when it comes to relationships. It's really difficult to find a guy who is loyal to his relationship. I know it's difficult in your part to find the right guy it takes time. My aunt is 43 years old and she got married at that age, and that person was her first and the last man. Actually, they already knew each other when they were still in college and he just came back from America to find out that my aunt was still single and he actually likes her for a very long time. Don't be in a hurry to find the right guy if you're looking for mister right just wait for a while it's not like the guys will disappear the next day, even I'm still waiting for the right person. To tell you the truth, there's a person I like for 9 years, I didn't know I was in love with him until I was in 3rd year college when my friends told me. Take your time.You don't know you might actually meet him someday.

I think most probably you should go for someone whom you love or like to spend time with. First I would suggest you to make friendships with all people around you both sexes and then you should try to find the right person and then try to become the best friendship with the person and then go for the person. I think most probably you will find the right person soon in your life.

Welcome to mylot Thank you so much for this discussion Well here normally girls get married at age 22-25, the marriages are arranged marriages by the parents i believe one gets his partner when right time comes, so you need to wait for your real soul mate.

No way to say for sure, because it's part 'waiting for when the time is right' and part 'springing into action at that time.' (For most men, it seems like they MAKE time right BY springing into action; but--as I'm not like most men--the time is only right for me when THE LADY springs into action ...) The important thing to do is to do what you love. You will meet the right man as you do that, and he will help you to do it better & more!