Why cant other people just mind their own Business?

that's what people do when they have nothing to do... its a fact of life.. we cant avoid it, but we can choose to ignore it and go on with our lives

i don't deal with this kind of situation very well. it makes me very nervous and paranoid. if i were you, i would probably move.

There are a lot of them in this world. People who just cant mind their own business. Actually, that's their business, minding other's life. From your post, I think that you're doing your role as a good parent and housewife, doing house chores and stuff. I guess you just have to ignore them. What matters is your family and your good life. Continue taking care of your family. Good luck.

Either confront them or ignore them...If they are talking about you behind your back, they most likely are jealous of you in some way...So just feel sorry for them, send off a little prayer for their souls and carry on...

Because they live very sad and empty lives, zip. If they can't find anything else to talk about. That or they really love you so much that they cant keep your name off their lips. Don't pay them any attention. Its not worth it.

Hello! You can't shut their mouths up but you can choose not to listen.I know its kinda hard to get that out of your busy life,buy you have to learn how to cope with conditions like that.Hope you would be fine soon!

Some people just have this thing on talking about other people's affairs. My say is just ignore them. Continue with your daily life. They will eventually get tired of talking about you especially if you don't give them any reason to do so. Just let them be but don't let them get into your nerve and ruin your day.

I am the kind of person that does not know how to ignore such comments unfortunately. However I am trying my best to manage to do so because as long as I am happy with what i am doing then there is nothing to worry about. Regardless of what you do, you will always find people talking and debating about you and your life. You must try to ignore them and live your life as if they did not exist.

I have to say that these situations are inevitable especially if we deal with a lot of people, we work with them, etc. Neighbors, friends and even co-workers can be cruel at times and they tend to talk about you behind your back. I can proudly say, that even though I may not have overcome getting irritated with these types of people, I can at least ignore them and go on with my life. I have slightly outgrown this annoying feeling when I know that others are talking stuff about you. I just put my mind to what's important, and I always think that these people don't deserve to be thought about and that I don't need additional stress in my life. You should try doing the same. It might not solve your problem, but at least, and I hope, it can help make things feel easier.

I have just learned not to be affected with those kind of people. I know that some of them have not quit talking about me. But who cares, right? They want to be problematic with how I am and that is their problem. Just do your thing and ignore them.

You cannot control what they say or how they say things about you. However, you can control how you react towards those things they say. Regardless of what they say, act positive. You have kids to be a good example too. If you react to them, they will be delighted and say more things. Show them it does not affect you and they soon realize they are wasting their time. Focus your energy on people and things that matter to you, not on those gossipers. You need not hide from them, you have every right to go out or wherever you want. Stand tall and walk straight past them. Take care.

some people are really like that, also we are human, even though we try our best to be positive and don't mind this kind of people, it is normal to get affected by it. it can really affect us but in the long run as long as we know the truth and what is right, that is all that matters. just try to ignore these kind of people, i'm sure soon they will get tired of minding your life instead of minding and focusing on their own. just stay strong and positive no matter what.

I really feel not good when people interfer and talk behind each other is the poorest act of humanbin base on their poor culture and poor knowing what life is about. I really avoid those sort of peope who do not mind their business and If I would able to cut the respect that I give people just for my husband , If I was living just for myself maybe I could tear their mouth as I hate kind of people that for not doing anything they waste their time to interfer to people life.

First it is just rude that people can't mind there own bussiness as if they don't have something better to do with there lifes no matter what what we do on our own or as a family behind our closed doors is our own business and no one elses 2nd i want to give you 2 thumbs up as i read this your a mother with a child in school you take the time to get your child ready plus i am sure you do all the cleaning and the cooking and other house hold things but for the most part if i understand your in school too that is great you are doing this all at the same time while taking care of your family 2 thumbs up keep up the great work

Oh, I so understand what you've been through, and I have some coworkers who do just like your neighbors do. But see, life won't be beautiful without them. I think we have to thank them, because they think we're worth the talking. You know there's a saying that when people are talking behind your back, it's because that's where they belong to: behind your back. So ignore them, and keep showing them that we're so much better than them!

Don't worry about it. You help them by making them busy. Yes, according to our friend, the best way to do is to ignore them. Have a nice day!

just don't mind them, ZIp. don't bother yourself listening to what other people say about you. don't listen to them so you wouldn't get depressed and upset. someday, those people will get tired. but, don't you just love that? people talking about you? when people talk about you, that means you are POPULAR!! LOL.