It's The Thought That Counts?(Really?)

I love it when my husband gives me a surprice gift. I never tell him that he has to be creative or a choose a gift on his own, so it is up to him whether he wants to surprice me or buy one of the things that I have told him about. Sometimes I don't know what I want, but I try to think of something because I know that my husband wants to buy me a gift. My husband is different from me and it is always easy for me to pick out a gift for him, because he loves material things and the list of things that he wants is very, very long

Welcome to mylot Thanks for this discussion My wife never says, bring this/bring that, she goes by my choice, what ever i give she accepts with a smile lol.

I really don't want to impose on my husband that he needs to give me gifts on special occasions. (And he really does not, what a rip off!) But I have learned to not expect. But if he happens to remember, no matter what kind if gift it is, i greatly appreciate it.

I do not say to my husband about what I want. I thought he is my husband and if is he caring about me he should know what I want from him but he never care at all. then I changed myself to tell him what I really nee, not what I want because he never pay any attention or has no sense or culture of giving gift, and it is too good when I hear still in the world are men who give gift to their wife and make them happpy.