What are the things you do when people does not behave in the way you wanted?

When the people doesn't behave in the way i want, i just ignore them without hurting any one , i do my work differently without getting frustrated.

There isn't much you can do when a person doesn't act to your expectations. If you have a long standing relationship with this person then there could be some dialogue but if not you are just disappointed. Choose your friends wisely and don't expect anyone to act the way your would. Everyone is different.

Unfortunately, for me, it is quite hard almost impossible even when having to deal with people like this. It gets to the point where man many times, you have to make a choice how you want to act from time to time and how will it effect things in the end. Most times it gets to the point where I have to say or do something and hope for the best from there.

Hi ajithlalt: The first thing I usually do is to try to relax and realize that we are adults and you can't force someone to make what you want. You can't change people's behaviour but you can change your own's behaviour. So the second thing I do is to ask myself what can I don to make things better, to avoid any uncomfortable situation or to change myself and not feel uncomfortable. ALVARO

People have their own opinion on things and the way they should act or do something. So it is quite difficult if you want to force everyone to do things in the way you wanted. Anyhow, if you are sure that you have the right way to behave, you can always go to these people and perhaps talks nicely and give some reasons to it. If your have the point, they would most likely be giving it some thought and perhaps, the change of behavior that you wanted.

I have grow up in the culture and family which they used to say respect and talk politely. If somebody is rude you should make him or her shame of his or her act by your nice and polite behave. so for that I have to talk behave myself in front of rude one, but if I live freely for myself I believe that to rude one, specially the one that your respect is not making any shame on him or her, we should behave much ruder than that behave that with feeling that hurt maybe he or she will stop to do rude behave to another one.

For me, I have to say that the people in my life that are the most likely to not behave in the way that I expect them to are my children. Of course this is something that is natural because of the fact that they are still young and learning about the world. That said, when they don't do things in the way that I think that they should be done, I will explain to them the reasons that they shouldn't do things the way that they'd already done them again in the future.

I try not to meddle with other people's attitude especially when it comes to the way they behave in an event or occasion. But if it were a nephew or a niece, I would readily get his/her attention and tell exactly how they should behave.

If it is a kid I will make them behave definitely. If it is an grown up person, I would simply tell them that I do not like the way they are behaving and see how they will react to that. If they are stubborn the only thing to do is to let them be and hope that one day they will change.

when that kind of situation happen to me, I get too angry from my inside but I should behave and talk respectfully with those as usual. I will try to ignore them and that is the most difficult thing for me. if I could leave all formality and respect which my parents taught me from childhood, if I could live for myself, you know what I will do? I will just explode with red faces and I will leave them. but it depends on who is that and where it will happen! if I get know the one can understand then I will explain nicely to that one, otherwise if will not understand I will just apologize and leave them and ignore. but I can not stand that much if I will be in that kind of situation.