Mylot said that I wasn't a Member!
By cynthiann
@cynthiann (18602)
Jamaica
February 19, 2013 4:03pm CST
I forget how long, but for around 10 days I was unable to log on to Mylot. There was a brief point where I got on for a few hours but was then barred. I did all the usual things to connect to Mylot and contacted admin numerous times too.
I received help from a Mylotter who also contacted Mylot and was just about to start a flamewhen I was able to get on. What a relief.
I was feeling like I did when, many years ago, the US denied me a Visitor's Visabut that is another hilarious story.
Have you ever had an experience with Mylot like this? So glad to be back and will try to play catch up over the next few days. I really missed checking in and was wondering what was going on in your lives.
Thanks Mylot for taking me back!
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19 responses
@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
20 Feb 13
OH, cynthiann...that would "knock me for a loop!" I would first be second guessing myself..WHAT HAVE I DONE???
Even tho' I have had this computer for 6 years, I am NOT a techie...and still face challenges navigating thru many facets of this cyber world! It still scares me.
And like you, I live on an Island, an island very bereft of services like technical ones..so if I screw up my computer, the price of ferrying a techie from a Metropolis, I think would be about the cost of a new computer!
I had a horrendous experience last spring, when I applied for my pensions! Even though my birth certificate was issued by the British Columbia (Provincial) government...the Federal Government (Canada) had the date of my birth wrong..and I had to move heaven and earth/am still fighting a battle with them..AND THEY ARE WRONG!
If myLot did that to me...I think I would be like the groundhog that signifies spring, and crawl back in my hole....
It is so sad, that Admin has not seen fit to respond to you! Take care!
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
20 Feb 13
Love to see two of my faves corresponding w/each other. LOVE U BOTH!!
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
Your story sounds so much worse than mine. BeaurocraCannot your politcial representative help? Get all the help you can to get this problem solved. I did feel a bit of an outcast and discombobulated actually - wondering what I had done wrong
I don'y so mind mylot admin not responding really as getting onto to mylot is what matters. Keep me updated on what is happening with you and contact everyone - Mayor, Councillors, Senator,- anyone but get help. What about your local newspaper?
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
19 Feb 13
It was published but I think that I only have a hard copy. Okay - I will re read and greatly condense but it is quite a story. Many thanks for your help but I am sorry that we did not keep the discussion going. It was so funny
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
Yes, it was funny - in retrospect of course. Then the US Embassy played a trick on me when I turned up for the interview but I got to have the very rare (for me) last word. And yes, I got the Visa.
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
Thank you Jill. It is good to be back againNot a good feeling at all!
@Kashmeresmycat (6369)
• United States
19 Feb 13
Oh my gosh, that's terrible! I hope this wasn't recently, right? It's great you had someone help you out with this. Did they tell you what the problem was that started all this? How completely crazy. We sure do have some wild glitches here, but yours is a new one to me. Glad you're back here safe and sound.
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@Kashmeresmycat (6369)
• United States
19 Feb 13
I could well imagine your concern! I would have been climbing up the walls, haha! I'm 100$ positive it was nothing you said. I've seen your discussions before and your responses and comments over time. I think you're one of the nicest people here on myLot, so I couldn't even imagine it was something you said. I think myLot just had quite a few glitches over the past few days, as well as a couple of weeks ago. I hope it's all good now for everyone. I know the Lamb had some problems too today. Glad you're back and all is well.
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
19 Feb 13
Nope. Not even an email to say what the problem was. I felt so excluded as I could not contact anyone apart from admin. But I do have the emails offline ofa friend who helped me. I am glad to be back . I just hope that it wasn't something that I said
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
Not being a techie I spend time trying to find my way around FBAm still getting lost and not understanding it all yet. Thank you again for your kind words and yes, I so missed being around
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
Dreadful! Wpuld not allow me to sign in and I filled in the questions etc to get the password sent to me b y email and nada. Absolutely nothing! Very frustrating
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
20 Feb 13
I don't think I've ever had any experience like this with myLot. I think that if that ever happened to me, I wouldn't know what to do. I wouldn't be able to ask other myLotters for help because I don't have their personal email address.
If ever, I guess I'd just keep on logging in, until whatever issue is going on, gets resolved.
Welcome back!
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
But I couldn't get on as my user name and password was rejected so I was out in the cold. I do have a few emails and this helped me get Dawn into action. I have just gone onto FB. My GD put me on but am wondering around like a lost sheep until I get the hang of it. A few mylotters are there that I know so you could link up with us if you wanted. I will email you my name and addy so if you do get stuck we will rally around
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
19 Feb 13
Mylot denies me to log in occasionally when i mistype the spelling of my password. It has not happened though that i had a problem logging in or that my account wasn't recognized. I sure hope it won't happen again to you and to other members. I am glad you are back. Have a wonderful fay! Cheers!
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
Well thank you. And thank you for your kind words. By your number of posts you have been on this site for a number of years so come come we have never met before? I have been on Mylot for five years
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
20 Feb 13
nope...never had that happen but I have had times when I've felt unwelcome and unwanted. It's not a good feeling. I'm glad you are back. Mylot was just messing with all of us last week. Hopefully it is all straightened out...for now at least.
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
Feeling unwanted or not good enough is not a good place to be. This was exactly what I felt when the US refused me a Visa. I kept saying to my husband 'Well, what is wromng woith me?. Then he made me mad by walking around singing the old song, 'How does it feel to be all alone? Like a great unknown'?
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
20 Feb 13
I have had that happen. It's just some kind of glitch i guess but it's sure frustrating.So glad u got back on. U would be greatly missed by many if u weren't here. Hope the situation w/u is better. Take care of yourself. LOVE YA!
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
Thanks Jo. I am glad that I am ot the only one who has had problems but even more happier now that it is solved. Now if Mylot would only allow me to receive notifications. HAVE NOT RECEIVED EMAILS FOR OVER 16 MONTHS. MAKES IT H*LL TO FIND ANYTHING OR FOLLOW UP ON A DISCUSSION.
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@celticeagle (167430)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Feb 13
I guess there was some crazy stuff going on for awhile on Mylot. People getting emails that they shouldn't be getting and all manner of oddities. I know they did close the site for repairs at one point. I have just had the notifications switched on and off on me occasionally. That is all.
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
Don't even mention notifications as it is 15 months at least since I received any!! Can you imagine how hard it is to look back for a response to a discussion I made? I often even forget which discussion that I have responded toIt's a nightmare
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@celticeagle (167430)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Feb 13
I sure can imagine it!! I had to do so for several months. It is like Mylot just decides to take it off and then put it back. It helped me to go to Gmail instead of Yahoo. I hate not having them. Having to check back mannually and the responses aren't in any good order. Ugh!
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
The point being that I am easily confused and really don't need this. I don't know what you mean when yhou said you went to gmail. I do have a gmail account. Do I add this somewhere? I really don't mean to be trying but I just don't know what to do. Any help would be appreciated
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
20 Feb 13
It has never happened to me coz I just leave my Mylot account open all the time. And if you did have some difficulties logging in before, maybe it was also at the same time that Mylot was fixing some glitches.
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
Do you mean that you leave your computer on all day and night? You never, ever turn it off? I religiously shut mine down when I have finished using it. Please let me know
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
So you don't lose mylot when you shut down that way? forgve me as with anything tech I am so last century. Mt GD set up my FB account.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
20 Feb 13
What I meant was, I never log out my Mylot account but I turn off my laptop after i used it. So when I turn it on the following morning, I do not need to type in my username and password.
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@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
19 Feb 13
I am glad you are back in here. It must be mixed feelings going through your head. I am also happy to hear it was a myLotter who helped, which shows how friendly the community is. You have so many posts already, it should be the rest of us playing catch-up with you instead. You spur us on too.
Thanks for sharing so that if ever it happens to us (which none of us would hope to), we know there is help around.
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
19 Feb 13
You are welcome. We look out for each other on Mylot. Can't think of a thing that I did wrong though!
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@RitterSport (2451)
• Lippstadt, Germany
26 Feb 13
hi dear Cynthie, I wasnt able to mylot for quite a while now cause the internet connection was and is out of order. I got me an internet stick now and so I am back again and also still playing catch up with all the mails and notifications I have. Hope you are all right and the twins are too.... How is Jolyan doing?
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
26 Feb 13
Everyone is fine. Learning curve this first year for Jo but his plans are in place . If only the country could get some money. The people do not understand the gravity of our economic situation at all. He is so strong and gaining so much experience and this is positive
@RitterSport (2451)
• Lippstadt, Germany
26 Feb 13
oh Cynthie thats such great news he is doing fine and gaining experience in his political job...... doing the happy dance and sending tons of hugs.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
20 Feb 13
I am glad for you to be back. I am new here and I did not experience something like that as I try to be online daily here in mylot.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
Welcome to Mylot and I hope that you make good friends as I have done. I also hope that nothing like this ever happens to you
@GardenGerty (160778)
• United States
20 Feb 13
That must have been really scary to you. I am glad that it straightened out. MyLot is having more and more issues, yet it is still the best run site that I am on at this time. I would miss you if you were not here.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
You are so kind and sweet and I would muss you too. You are so supportive to everyone. I am happy to be back
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
26 Feb 13
Yawn, yawn, blame everything on the muffins right? I will get a photo of him and send you. Nearly tripped in the market yesterday but he moved too fast
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
20 Feb 13
I have not had those moments where I can not come here and do not bother me calm.
however, because this is a legal site and h would never want to leave it because for me it is kind of part of my life from my work now.
nice day!
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
Yes, we can get very attached to the site and mnake so many lovely friends so I do understand what you mean
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
20 Feb 13
Hi Cynthia ! Glad you're back and have chance to interact with you ! You're a ong time member therefore an expert of our rues and FAQ , so what happened , any violation? This makes me bit worried , i thought it would happened to newbies who are not that aware of the rules and violating some. Anyways , the important things is you are back ! Keep posting now . All the best !
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 13
Not aware of any violation as I have not received any emails period. Just a glitch I suppose but I did feel very odd about it all. Rejected really Glad to see you around and thank you for responding. Don't depend on me to answer all about the rules though as I am the whacky one on this siteAlways a day late and a dollar short in life