jealousy
@angelwithkids (1256)
United States
February 19, 2013 8:02pm CST
I'm at the point that I'm beginning to dislike my son's g/f. She went through his phone behind his back. She found a text message between him and another friend. In it, he tells the other friend that he missed her and that he said i love you. This girl has many medical problems and is out of school more than in. He has no romantic inclinations toward this girl, but thinks of her like a "cousin". He's very tenderhearted towards those that require more attention. The way that his g/f and her mother kept ganging up on him to talk and to open up, I wanted to throw them out of the house!! My son didn't want me to interfere, so I kept my mouth shut. I hope that my son rethinks this relationship and she leaves soon. Her mother told my son that he needed to change the way he talks to other girls!! She better be glad that she left when she did, I would have thrown them out talking to my son like that!!
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
20 Feb 13
I agree with the point you are trying to make here. The girl is sneaky, immature and attention seeking. I think she may be vindictive too but I'm guessing. The mother is egging her on obviously so I'm thinking that any involvement here from your son to this girl and each one's family is going to be filled with lots of nasty drama. Who needs that??
@angelwithkids (1256)
• United States
21 Feb 13
Exactly!! I get enough drama from my ex, I don't need her stuff as well. The way she's always wanting my son to quit talking to other girls and to spend every waking minute with her every weekend. Never mind, that I might have plans or that he wants to stay home.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Feb 13
angelwithkids look I too would have been upset if ,my fiance to be had told another girl he loved her. He needs to explain what that is all about to the girl friend so maybe she is not the right one but mom you should not be interfering either. I do think that if he had told his girl friend first about the girl he loves like a
cousin it would have been a whole lot better. now I do not know the girl friend but I know how I as a young woman would have felt to hear my husband to be telling a strange girl he loved her.
@angelwithkids (1256)
• United States
20 Feb 13
She thinks that he shouldn't be saying it to any body. Then my son told me that she forwarded the messages to her phone and was showing them to other people! How childish is that?!
The way that they all came to my house before I got off work and was jumping on my son. One thing about my son, when confronted like that, he's not going to say anything at all. He doesn't like confrontation.
@tyleremy (170)
• China
21 Feb 13
Hi angel!
I can see your problem and undestanding really matters! I am definately with you!What is wrong with talking that to his friends?Don't we all sometimes say that to our friends?She is making nonsense and being inmmature.I just don't see the point, is she feeling insecure?I know you care about you son but I surely know that as a much more mature adult than she is, you son will work it out.
