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hi Zoe, Sorry to hear that you have broken up with him already. I hope you will get better soon. Although you may be feeling sad right now, like the hurt and the pain won't stop... know that you will get through this anyhow. only time is your aid and it is the only thing that can help you forget all about what has happened between you and your boyfriend. If you want to forget from time to time, i can only help you with the things i did when i was in the situation myself. so what happened was i also felt like hell broke lose and that i just want to just sulk, cry and let my eyes dry out. =( You know what helped me? it helped me when i have spent a lot of times at work that i was kept busy (at least i won't be thinking of him for a few hours when i do my work, it helped me that i have ask friends to go out with me during weekends on places where we have never gone - so i would not have to remember him and our dates together. it helped that i have removed him in my cellular phone, and it helped that i do not log in to facebook because it helped me to not expect and wait for any messages or activity he has done in the site. =) I am sure you will be able to go through this successfully. You would even be surprised as to how strong you are, and why did you even think that you will never be over this.... You will be over him sooner that you think.

Been there.. done that. I know how it feels but keep in mind that everything happens for a reason. If you are really for each other, LOVE WILL FIND IT'S WAY BACK. :) Cheer up!

Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i can understand your situation very well and i know how u must be feeling after the break up. it is true that u must be missing your boyfriend very much and it would be hard to forget all those moments spent with him but then how many days will u pain yourself by thinking about such things? it will take some time but give your best to forget every thing. What say?

Dear,I sm sorry to hear that. Before I met my hubby,I loved a man deeply, I thought I can not lose him,I thought I can not live normally without him.However, when he hurt me,when I felt depressed and desperate with him ,I choose strong and tolerance.Now my hubby treat me very good and care of me gently.The miserable experence make me cherish current my husband much more.

Hi Zoe!, sorry to hear that! oH , I don't what had hapenned to you and your ex and I know how it feels but have you ever ask yourself, until when do you plan to feel that way?? I know it's hard to forget someone you used to love and hangout with,,especially when the guy has done nothing bad to you or I mean he has been so good to you...(which is based from my own experience)... but hey!!! there's still life to enjoy !!! Instead of staying at one corner of your house thinking about him, and the things you two did before, why don't you go out hang out with your friends or engage yourself to doing some activities like jogging, hiking, or things that ineterest you!! you'll never know you might meet someone again,,, better thatn him... It's a matter of choice, girl!! So, do you choose?????? to be in that dark corner or get some light and start a new??/

Hello, Zoe. How are you. well, i just want to say that love is not the only thing we live for. although i feel your sorrow.It hurts when you think about the time you spent together. It hurts when you think about him and anything relates about him. anyway, be nice to yourself.you just need time to calm yourself.it will be better,

Thanks for this discussion, i can feel how depressed you feel now, but remember 'time is the best healer'; soon you can forget; your effort is needed.

I think everybody went through the same thing at one point in their life. Been there as well. I tried to keep myself busy all the time so as not to recall memories with an ex. It hurst like hell to be alone, so i spent most of my time with friends and talking to other people. I diverted my attention to certain hobbies to keep my body and mind busy. It's not easy but you'll get there. Only time can heal the wound. Be patient.

I must admit, I don't miss my ex boyfriends at all. I just got used to them being gone that is all and I am happy with myself anyway. You must really love him and not ready to let go at all, because you still have those feelings of loneliness without him. How did you broke up?

Tough journey you are going through right now, sorry; remember you are wasting your precious time thinking about him while he is having fun moving on with his life. Try to alienate the gifts and items that make you nostalgic, and replace with your most cherished ones, such as photos, music, paintings etc. Closure is also important when you want to get past a relationship that swept you off your feet. Face and admit that your ex is over you, and lay strategies of occupying yourself with a hobby; friends and community work. share your pain with a trusted friend and get it off your chest. you will be surprised you are a very strong person and after you heal, are confident and happy, a new love will find you.

Are you better,now? I had be experienced that,so I can understand your situation very much. Do not be an idiot,the man who bear to brake up with you is not worth you to miss.You will meet a better man love you sincerely and spend the whole time together.He will never leave you alone whatever you do,because he cares you.Braking up is not a rare thing,it happens at every corner and every day, not just happens on you.So be stronger and tolerance.He gave up you because his ignorance.

You are indirectly telling us that you have no other activities in life. The reason why you kept remembering him is your mind is idle. Why not keep yourself busy of useful things to do. There will be many boys that will be coming to your life just do your best in every endeavor you want to participate remember your obligation to your self to your family and things you want to acquire in the future.

I am sorry to hear that but Try to make yourself busy of something to control thinking about him. everything will be fine with time. there was a time for me that I lost the one I love and that time was too difficult but with time things became alright.

Hi zoe! thanks for sharing your life.Once you plan to end a relationship, you don't ever back for it's gonna make you suffer more.You need friends to talk you out.I know it is cruel but you have to admit that life could be much tougher, you have to stronger to face loneliness.It takes time,zoe and you would be fine later.

i feel lonely if i didn't talk to my girlfriend or see her on any day. i can understand your feeling , we know how we feel when the person we love is missing at this moment with us. In each and every situation we remember the person we miss the person a lot. we wish that the person should be beside us at this moment while listening to music watching movie etc. time is a healer , we need to concentrate on something else so that we can forget the person for sometime. but some situations make us to think of the person then those will be sweet memories. be happy always

with my respect, could you answer "what is your life for?" or "what is your life about?" There is a sentence which is talk "there is balance, dark-bright, night-daylight, full-empty". Love is about heart, like we know, every baby was created with heart and brain at first of all vital organs. It's about the balance of yours, please try to take a long breath. Talk to your self to make empty of your heart pain and dependencies. Try to full up your mind about healing and better life. Imagine it, try to realize it on your heart. Take a bow.. Cheers up..