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By ayano678
@ayano678 (441)
February 19, 2013 9:23pm CST
If you LOVE because she is good, it is not love but admiration,
If you LOVE because she is beautiful or handsome, it is not love, but lust.
If you LOVE because she was afraid of pain, but unfortunately it's not love.
If you LOVE because she's good, it's not love but gratitude.
but love him because of his heart.
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6 responses
@bluesea3 (167)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 13
Some problems about human being. They want to make a logical explanation about heart. Even, i think it's impossible to describe it or define it precisely. Like an example, could anyone define precisely about hate or like? I believe we can talk some words, but it can't define it precisely. Because it about heart, not mind or brain. So, loving someone is about love, just love. No reason, only feel of the deep heart.
@bluesea3 (167)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 13
If you wanna know more, you can learn about hypnosis language and reiki. You will learn about improving your mind and heart. It will make clear about the difference of them. Then, you will know about love, on your head/mind/brain, or on your heart.
Moreover that, it contain "symbols" which can not be define precisely. Especially, the symbols of heart's expressions. Love is one of it.
If you can learn deeper, may be you will reach the most truly love in this cosmos.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Feb 13
hi when I fell in love I was loving the whole person, his personality,his warmth ,his sunny disposition his love for animals and children and his love for Me.. Love is such a combination of things its really hard to define an d yes his heart too and i used to tease him I married him because he had such a cute butt., No You fall in love with a whole person and 
he with you.I have had 86 years to try and define love and I think the one in the bible where ever its at is the best one I h ave seen yet.
he with you.I have had 86 years to try and define love and I think the one in the bible where ever its at is the best one I h ave seen yet.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
21 Feb 13
That is true. You love a person not because of the greatness that you see physically but loving the person because of how great he is in totality.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
20 Feb 13
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Yes u are absolutely right. i do not believe those who say they fell in love at the first sight, as this is not love but lust. I feel that love is always felt from within and it is never forcibly done. so we have to love someone's heart first which is the true indication of love.
What say?
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
20 Feb 13
You are a 100% right regarding the above views you have shared with us. Love is more than all of these that you have mentioned and many of us tends to forget that when we let our pride and selfish thoughts get the best of us. I love someone because they make me happy and treat me right and return my love for them in return. Romance is a top priority when it comes to love.
