Why does a guy is telling story to a girl?
By newgirl0511
@newgirl0511 (166)
February 20, 2013 6:21am CST
He seems serious telling stories with me. He seem follow my opinion. He is gentle. He would always find a way to listen to me. He is my collegue and my superior. But telling stories about his girlfriend and plans in the future. That seems strange.
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
20 Feb 13
Maybe he had found a sister in you. And maybe you seem to look like a girl whom he can be trusted. He feels at ease telling such things to you because he feels that you wouldn't mind it and would be a good listener and adviser to him.
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@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
20 Feb 13
Great thoughts, my dear little En! Trust me, to go off on another angle, I was fearing another of the wiles of a "player!" Your thoughts have grounded me...but I still would go forward in this relationship, with trepidation.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
21 Feb 13
Hi there my virtual mom Your thoughts might be possible too. But I see no harm to this guy, unless he is trying to be sweet and pursue her too. However, what he tells is about the girl he loves. So I see nothing wrong with it so far.
Your thoughts might be possible too. But I see no harm to this guy, unless he is trying to be sweet and pursue her too. However, what he tells is about the girl he loves. So I see nothing wrong with it so far.
@else22 (4317)
• India
20 Feb 13
As is obvious from your discussion,the boy is not your boyfriend.Also it is obvious that he loves to share his plans and everything else with you.May be he is expecting you to suggest you some new things,something he may add to his plans.Seems he is very enthusiastic about his future with his girlfriend.So what?If he trusts you [and he does lest he would not have shared his plans with you],then what's the problem?Listen to him,and,if possible,suggest him something new that may make his future more enjoyable.
@newgirl0511 (166)
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20 Feb 13
I did suggest for him. It's just new with me that someone, guy, is sharing something with me, everyday.
@newgirl0511 (166)
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22 Feb 13
I am not really enjoying the story but the way he tell it was good. I can really tell that he need someone to listen to him.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
21 Feb 13
Yes, this is a little interesting unless he is just asking for support. Which could be. Some men just need a woman they can talk too and confide in with personal information to get their opinion. Unless he is trying to lead on to something else, I would not be worried.
@newgirl0511 (166)
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22 Feb 13
I don't think he is leading to something. Maybe we have both opinion on one thing. We are both the only child in our respective family.
@miyazaki12 (429)
• Philippines
21 Feb 13
hi! I think you maybe overthinking?? LOL I have plenty of boy friends and girl friends and all of them would tell countless stories about themselves, their loved-ones and their families. It just means he that he trust you and he thinks of you as a nice person who wouldn't tell stories about him when he's not around.
@newgirl0511 (166)
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22 Feb 13
Or maybe, he has noone at the office, just me. But, I believe I am a good person. His story remains with me. And, yes, I can be trusted.
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
20 Feb 13
Maybe because for him, you are practically one of the boys, or someone whom he considers his good friend and confidante. Very few people are trustworthy now and are really comfortable to talk to. He is lucky to have someone like you to share his thoughts and dreams.
@newgirl0511 (166)
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22 Feb 13
"One of the boys", that seems nice. I like it. I am not really a femenine type so maybe you are right.
@tyleremy (170)
• China
20 Feb 13
Hi new girl!
Couldn't he find you a nice person whom he wants to share something with?I don't see any stange thing going.I think you need girls opinions rather than guys.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
20 Feb 13
some real close friends to each other always seam to tell all to them like getting married or a week end get away and even what happens in the bed
