dating...

Chatting online with someone for a yr is not areal relationship and you never met in person so who can liking someone else be cheating? Also you have had an online relationship with this guy for over a yr are you ever going to meet him in person and what has kept you from doing so b now? You don't know what the guy's life is like when he's offline. He could be married or dying or chatting with others like he is with you and you'd never know. Now i'm not saying move on from the online guy what i'm saying is find out more about him if you can. See if he chats with others like he does with you see if you can meet in person and such before you make the decision of weather or not to be with him or the guy your friends with. Just remember be very careful because you never met the online guy in person so when and if you do meet do so i the most public area you can find and don't take him to your house. Just get to know the online guy as well as you can and find out weather hes lying to you about himself or whatnot. Also i think your having feelings for your guy friend because hes around you and the online guy isn't. Well get to know about the online guy before you make any decisions. Good luck and be very careful.

I'm confused, do you mean your on line friend and you have mutual understanding already. What I mean is, boyfriend/girlfriend relationship even you though you haven't met him/her but through chat only. It is possible to fall for a guy/girl even through the net, because I have a niece who also found her man on line. The first they met was when the guy invited her family to visit his country which they did. When my niece came back home, after a year the guy followed her and the next thing I know is, they are about to get married. I guess when their family went to their country they have already finalized their nuptial date. I think you are not cheating your on line boyfriend as you have said, it's just crush with one of your friend and besides, if your online bf is really serious about having a relationship with you, he must make the move to see you personally. What I mean is, to show that he really cares for you.

Well, I think you need to ask your online boyfriend to see you if he really loves you or not. If he is not willing for that agreement that's the time to say goodbye for him and continue having a crush on that person you like...

Online dating can be tricky; I became really good friends with someone only and now we are engaged to be married early next year. Have you ever seen that show catfish on mtv, they help online lovers meet in person, but I'm not actually saying to go that route in order to meet him. Have you ever had a skype call with this guy, that can really tell you if your feelings are that strong for this guy after actually seeing his face. It can also be a way of if he is really lying to you about anything or not. I have been in a long distance relationship for a while with my fiance and I can always tell if he is lying to me (although he doesn't do it a whole lot). Let me get this straight though, have you ever even talked to this guy on the phone? Because if you haven't there is something very wrong with that. I suggest trying to get him on skype, or oovoo, or even facebook webcam and if he fights you on it you may as well just drop it and let your friend know how you feel.

I would not say its cheating you have never met the person but at the same time try to make it work and see with your on line love if there is any hope that they will soon becoming to vist or move

If you have a crush on your friend then you're probably not that much into your online boyfriend anymore. Good thing to resolve that situation would be to finaly meet with that person. You would be able to tell if you feel something for him if you meet him face to face. If you meet him and you won't feel anything or if you won't meet him at all then I think you should break up. This relationship clearly isn't satisfying for you since someone else caught your attention.

You're not cheating unless you've done something with this friend. Is there some legit reason why you guys have never met? If its that impossible then just end the whole online thing and go for your friend. Who knows? Maybe it is lust at first, but perhaps it could become something more.

You are losing hope because you haven't meet him personally. But, it is not impossible for you to fall for someone who is around you always while the other one is far, far away. But, it's probably just trials between you two. Don't you know that the most patient and faithful hearts shall be rewarded? :)

If you are confident that you are not cheating your bf, then do not worry. Now you can check the chastity of your bf. Because there are many instances, where many guys cheat poor girls, although they have wife/gf, kids etc. Better tell him to come and check his attitude. Have a very nice day.

This is just me and my personal opinion, but as long as you and the guy haven't met in person yet, that cannot be referred to as a real life relationship. We all know that everyone can be anybody else online regardless of whether you already see them real time over the internet or what. So I don't think you're cheating because there isn't even a real relationship to begin with. Besides, how sure are you that you are the only one that that person is talking to online? I am not trying to shadow your happiness here, but I have been in LDR and now I am married to that same guy and I have lots of friends who also tried that but ended up getting hurt. I am just being realistic. If you really want someone to be in a relationship with that will end up in marriage, I think one year is enough to evaluate your feelings and situation if that is where it will really go. I am sure that you can figure this out. Good luck, and I hope you find that happiness you truly deserve.

you have not seen him yet so how are you sure if he is honost with you? and I do not think if you are cheating him, you do not know him even.