Unwanted behavior in churches

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Our respect in hearing the Holy Mass, by at large, seems to have declined over the years. At the right hand side of the bench i was seated was a boy, around 8 years of age is all that my eyes could tell, holding a tablet and playing video games when the Eucharistic celebration is going on. His mother at the side of him looks so proud on every score that the young boy gets. Just in front of me are two teen-age girls whose voices are irritatingly beyond normal that I can't play deaf. Instead of listening to the homily, the two opted to chit-chat discussing where they would go and have fun after the mass. And beside me is a five year old girl eating junk foods since the mass started. It seems that her parents don't mind turning the church into a picnic ground since their daughter still have stocks of food mid-way of the Eucharistic Celebration. These scenes are reflections of what we are teaching our kids when it comes to the celebration of the Holy mass, how they should behave in the presence of God and the kind of respect they should show to our Lord Jesus Christ. As Parents, we often call the attention of our children's when they are talking back while we are in the process of giving them a lecture for their wrong doings. While we consent and honor their reasoning, we would demand them to honor us in the strictest sense that they are not bound to ignore our presence much of what we are saying. And to reinforce the argument of the parents' to be honored (a birthright to many) by their children, the fourth commandment is sometimes quoted to impose obedience. What then shall we call the parents who allow their children to do silly things inside the church yet, demand respect from their children which they believe is due to them as set forth in the 10 commandments of God? Are these all Smokes and mirrors? The fourth commandment, along with the rest of it, was written and imparted to us not to exclusively establish a mark of respect to parents but what's more in the service of God. When God said through his mediator Moses, "Honor thy father and thy mother", He is not only saying to honor our parents but moreso, to honor Him alike for He is our real father and mother. We should remember that more than anything else, God is both our father and mother for it is said, "When my father and my mother forsake me, then the LORD will take me up" - Psalm 27: 10. It is therefore better to leave our kids at home than to allow them to do unnecessary things inside the house of God. Our children are our responsibility (Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it - Proverbs 22:6), therefore, we should discipline them by teaching them the right way especially when they are in front of our supreme creator. Let's hark back to the day when our Lord Jesus got mad when the temple of God was turned into a market place. Jesus said explicitly, "My house shall be called the house of prayer". The church is therefore not a house to play video games, nor a house for chit-chats and gossips, and certainly not a picnic ground in a public park. Going back to the things that I have seen and mentioned, it came to me that while parents need to discipline their children so that they will do the right thing inside the church, I weighed up and held that every so often we, parents, deserve the rod and reproof more than their children above all, when we fall short of shaping our children for age of accountability. What about you? Would you allow your children to do things that are not supposed to be done inside the church? Or would you rather show your love to your children by exercising your diligence in disciplining them?