How old was your child when they gave up their nap?

Canada
February 21, 2013 10:07am CST
My son seems to be outgrowing his nap - some days, he doesn't nap at all, and on days when he does nap, he doesn't want to go to bed until fairly late. To be honest, it's getting frustrating. I can't plan a day because I don't know if he will nap or not. He will sleep anywhere, and I can move him from the carseat or the stroller to his bed if he falls asleep, but we don't always take the stroller with us, so it gets inconvenient. How long will this phase last?
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
21 Feb 13
Well, whats wrong with an afternoon nap? I'm a Great Grandad and I love an afternoon nap. It makes my day! I'm wondering if I'd like a stroller too? The good news is- I don't think I'd like wearing nappies. But perhaps the time will come!
• Canada
21 Feb 13
Oh, a nap is great - the problem is that sometimes he naps, and sometimes he doesn't. Up until he was about 16 months old, his sleep was like clockwork. It was really consistent. Now it's all over the place.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
21 Feb 13
Well, perhaps he's ready to give it up now. So why not try him with a nap when he wants one, and skip it when he's not sleepy. That's an easy solution that just might work!
@grkelly (1206)
• Malta
21 Feb 13
I am one of those persons who thinks that naps should last as long as the mother likes, because as longas the child is put to bed, there is a good chance that he will actually manage to nap a bit in the afternoon. It all depends on the amount of physical exertion he was exposed to in the morning though. If you feel that he is not feeling tired enough at night, then I would suggest that you do not put him to sleep in the afternoon at all.
• Canada
21 Feb 13
I don't really have that much control over it. He's just not falling asleep - not even if he has gymnastics class, then goes to the park, and then goes for a long drive. He's always been a good sleeper, and it's probably just a thing where he has his own rhythm to it. On the days he doesn't nap, he does sleep for 12 - 13 hours a night. It's just inconvenient because it's hard to tell which days he's going to nap.
@grkelly (1206)
• Malta
1 Mar 13
In such a case i would simply not put him to bed inthe afternoon. Then, he should be pretty sleepy in the evening and you can take him to bed early at say 8pm. Probably in such a way he would be happier and so will you,.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
21 Feb 13
you don't say what age your child is but my kids both napped until they were 4 but i know women whose children are only are around 2 years of age and they are not napping anymore or seldom anyways so the mom's generally make a quiet time in their rooms for their children for an hour or so. that gives both the child and the parent have a bit of a rest.
• Canada
21 Feb 13
He'll do quiet time, at least - he likes to sit and look at a book or sit on the couch and look out the window.
@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
21 Feb 13
Hello Cutepenguin, I´m glad to read you again. Well my eldest girl quitted snaps at the age of 4, and my smallest one at the age of 3. However I enjoyed taking them to the park when they were 7 and 9, and if they had too much activity they felt tired early. Or even they got asleep on the way home. I´d suggest you always take the stroller with you at least for 6 more months. Good luck and blessings Cutepenguin... dainy
• Canada
21 Feb 13
thanks! I have been avoiding the stroller because he prefers to walk, but if he gets tired it's hard to carry him. I think I need to see if I can find a lighter stroller so that I can have it with me but still carry it if he's running about.
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@redredrose (1105)
• United States
21 Feb 13
I do not have kids because i am unable to but my niece stopped taking naps when she was 5 and started school. My nephew is 4 and still takes them. I think he needs them because when he doesn't have a nap he gets really tired and cranky. So it just depends on the parent and the kid and how the reacts without a nap or if the parents thinks the kid is ready to be without a nap. But i do think once they are in school they don't need a nap because you can't really nap in school anyway just send them to bed early at night.
• Canada
21 Feb 13
Fortunately, when my son doesn't nap he doesn't get cranky until about 5 or 10 minutes before bedtime. But he's not quite 3! He does start preschool in September though, so maybe it will be easier without the nap.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
23 Feb 13
Both of my children gave up their last naps of the day when they were between two and three years old. I think that the reason that they gave up napping at such an early age is because of the fact that we didn't have a strict schedule that we had to keep during the day so they were able to sleep in in the mornings until they felt like getting up as opposed to having to be awakened early in the mornings during the week. For them, their quitting naps at a pretty early age was actually a good thing because it did mean that we were able to do more enrichment activities when they were very young.
• Canada
24 Feb 13
I think once he's fully outgrown his nap it will be easier to sign him up for programs. He doesn't sleep in - he's an early bird - so for us the key is getting him to bed quite early (or he falls asleep at the dinner table).
• Canada
26 Feb 13
i think my daughter was 3 and a half when she stopped napping. she had quiet time in her room though for a month or so just to see if she would fall asleep.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
28 Feb 13
As far as I can remember, my youngest son gave up on his afternoon naps when he was 6 years old. That was the time where he would be playing longer with his cousins and also exert more effort in doing his school work.
• India
28 Feb 13
As children grow older there is a change in their sleeping pattern .My grand daughter was just 4 months old and we had planned for an outing in the evening and that day she did not take her afternoon nap but once when we had all setteled in the car she dozed off and we all joked that perhaps she thought that we,d leave her all alone so she kept herself awake at noon ,could be never know what goes on in their little minds .I think anychange (guests or parties) disturbs their sleeping routine and it takes awhile to set it on track once again .
@arpazia (191)
• United States
26 Feb 13
Oh naps! My son was about one when he decided he no longer needed naps! Get a schedule for naps. You don't have to call it a nap and he may not sleep. Some kids just need quite time, like I said he may or may not sleep!