Pillow Is My Partner... :)
By Dassodils
@Dassodils (2010)
India
February 21, 2013 12:32pm CST
Haii..I am very happy to share this to you..I think that you will be feeling like this everyday..I love my sweet lover.But some times,i will quarrel with him.Then I will go to bed with out speaking anything or doing anything and press my face on the pillow.I love my pink pillow so much.I will cry till my sorrow ends.My lover says that i am so sensitive.If I am happy,I will hug my pillow and talk yo it for a long time.Then If I am in sad mood,I will hide my face in to the pillow.After that i will cry for a long time.Then my pillow will be wet.Do you know that one thing??If you are not able to cry loudly,You can press your face on to pillow and cry.No one will hear that.Do you think like me?Always I feel that pillow is my partner..What about you friends????What will you do on such situation????
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17 responses
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
21 Feb 13
I don't have any close relationship with my pillows. One is used to rest my head and I often have it in my lap when sitting in my chair. Makes me feel more comfortable. The other is placed under that one on my bed to elevate it a little.
A long time ago my cousin had told me about how you can yell into your pillow if you get upset and no one can hear you. 
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
21 Feb 13
For that to work you'd have to set the lt computer on a table or desk. You could put it on you lap under the lt computer, but that's not a good idea as it would cause over heating.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
22 Feb 13
yaa..By keeping lap top as touching the body will lead to cancer.On of my friends said this to me..Thanks
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
21 Feb 13
Yaa..Through this I understood that we can use our pillow for so many things.How do you place your pillow for lap top?? Will you please describe it to me?? If,That will be useful to me..Thank you
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
21 Feb 13
my pills also has become a friend for many night when i am alone and what is nice is they dont talk back
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
21 Feb 13
Ya..every time,We need a friend like hearing our all sorrows and happiness.So pillow is your friend right?? Okay..good..thank you for response.. :)
@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Feb 13
Crying is healthy. Using your pillow is a great idea. Hopefully you can learn how to better discuss things with your loved one and then you won't feel so badly. Affective listening is important too.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
22 Feb 13
Yaa..Is crying is good for health??? Are you sure friend?? This is the first time that I am hearing about this.Will you please explain about it?? I like to know that.When I speak to him every time,He will listen to me by looking to my eyes with out saying any thing.I always feel like I am teaching him like a teacher.After completing every thing,He will ask me questions.Before one day,We quarreled on this topic.I was talking a serious matter.On that time,he says the answer with out hearing the all things.Now,I am very happy to get such a obeying baby.. :) Thank you..
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@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Feb 13
A release of your emotions is a good thing. Crying washes out your eyes too and that is a good thing. Any time you release an emotion in a tactful and serene way you are doing your body good. Keeping emotions bottled up is not good for you. I bet you didn't know that laughing is good for your body too.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
22 Feb 13
Hi,
I think you become more sensible on love and love fever. This is the best time to live with imaginations and its pleasure. I am much sure that you are really enjoying the days with dreams and realities. Yes, whenever I feel to cry so hard, even I used to go to the places where there is no people around and express my feelings to the nature. Whenever I felt much worried, I had gone to the water falls, or hill tops or river sides to share my grief alongwith it.
You are from Tellicherry and you may be awere that in Kannur, there are a lots of hills and waterfalls. Yes, I am also from a remote village from Kannur and having a lots of hills and waterfalls and all become now just dreams and memories.
Now I feel like crying no because someone caused me to cry, but just I lost all those sweet days and where are those days and where am I now!
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
22 Feb 13
Ya..good.Nice to know that you are from kerala.I am from trichur.Is there have so many hills and rivers??Here,all those things were there.But now,The number of people are increasing day by day.So that all are building new home.For that they make slopes at the place of fields and rivers.Thank you..
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
22 Feb 13
Dassodils:
You have mentioned about the relationship with your partner. But a few of our friends have analysed the relationship with pillow.
Is your relationship with that boy/man known to your family? Are you aware of important details about him and his family? Many times love starts without knowing the partner. Also are you confident of going ahead with or without the support of parents from both sides.
Is this not affecting your studies? Perhaps you may score more marks than what you are scoring now, in the absence of tension on account of this relationship.
best wishes
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
22 Feb 13
yes. seems to be a fitting match for you. you have expressed confidence in the response you have given. best wishes
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
22 Feb 13
Haii Ravi..Nice to see you after a break.Hope you are fine.My family is not aware of our relationship.I know him very well.He is my best friend's cousin also my senior in same college.And then I have the courage to face those all things.But I believe that if some body is suffering from our life,We will not be good.So I like to marry him with the permission of both families.I know that it is difficult to convince every body at the same time.But I will try my best.His family and relatives are fully supporting us.In my family,my sister,my cousin and all friends know this.They also enquired about him.I am very sure the he will love me and care me for ever.According to me, that both are enough.If both of us have a mutual understanding,Every thing will be fine and we like to work together some where very peacefully.He is as my dream boy.He is 3 year elder than me.Slim and stylish. He is a modern type thinking person.Then we both are in same field.Same caste,religion etc.Then what is wrong???? Thank you..
@microengineer (587)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 13
My computer and my car is the best friends to play and chat with.. I love to re-engineered it to drive away my madness..
Yeah this is the man's point of view.
Cheer up Dassodils..
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
22 Feb 13
Thank you dear friend..Nice to know that.Every boy's best friend will be like this.Car mobile phone etc.At the same time,the girls friend will be teddy bears,pillow etc.. Am I right??
@microengineer (587)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 13
More less you are right. But I know some girls that attached to technical thing. Not much, very-very rare.
Hope a joyful day for you.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
20 Mar 13
Hi Dassodils, seems that the red pillow is your best friend. You would share everything with it no matter you are happy or sad. 
don't forget to change the pillow cover when it's soaked with tears. Yeah, it's safe to cry or shout aloud pressing the face against the soft pillow as no one would get the noise.
My pillow is soft and I rest my head comfortable on it when lying in the bed. I would hug it tightly on my chest if I feel rather cold in the middle of the night. sometimes couldn't find my blanket in the dark. When young I would cry in the bathroom with tape or shower open.
Happy posting 
don't forget to change the pillow cover when it's soaked with tears. Yeah, it's safe to cry or shout aloud pressing the face against the soft pillow as no one would get the noise.
My pillow is soft and I rest my head comfortable on it when lying in the bed. I would hug it tightly on my chest if I feel rather cold in the middle of the night. sometimes couldn't find my blanket in the dark. When young I would cry in the bathroom with tape or shower open.
Happy posting 
@lloydbelleza (1227)
• Philippines
22 Feb 13
I also love pillows but I love blankets more. Whether it's hot or cold, I'd love to be covered by my blanket. I always feel a sense of security whenever I am covered by a blanket. There's warmth that feels like hugs of someone you love. It also gives me peace of mind because I feel safe. I feel like I am protected from whatever there is outside.
Whenever I feel so sad, I cover myself with a blanket and hug a pillow beneath it. That way, I feel like I am comforted. I feel like someone is there hugging me and listening to my every word. And with the blanket, I feel like someone is wiping the tears away from my face.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
22 Feb 13
So sweet..I also love blankets.Especially in the colors of white and pink.I think that now you are like a baby.Because, While sleeping, the children will have the fear that if there have any ghost or some thing like that will caught them.My sister is 16 years old.Still she is fear of ghost.And she will close her eyes while laying.Thank you..
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
22 Feb 13
yes..When I feel so lonely..I will hug it tightly as you said.That is a variety feeling.I also talk to it while sleeping.Thank you.. :)
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@prudhviraja (117)
• India
22 Feb 13
Hai, In my life also some time it was happening. If there is quarrel then I will go to the kitchen and sit there for some time alone. I do not know why I am unbale to cry. No water comes from my eyes. If I cry then my partner says that why are you acting? So you are lucky atleast you can cry even it is in silently. I love your pillow because he is very lucky that he get all your feeling i.e. happeness, moodiness, sad etc etc. Have a nice day
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
22 Feb 13
Thank you so much for sharing your experience.By hugging pillow I will not feel that i am alone.And also that he is with me.On that time he will be very angry and scold me by hurting words.But after some time, He will come to me.Then we will ask our experience.means he know that I will definitely cry.And If we quarreled yesterday,He will know that by my sound.I will be suffering from cold.And then he will be very sorry.And say sorry from his heart.And show his love to me.Then,all sadness will fly away..Thanks :)
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
21 Feb 13
Whenever me and my husband have one of our arguments, we try our best not to let another day to pass without talking it out and fixing. We do not believe in going to bed angry or sad. At least we should already be in speaking terms before going to bed.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
22 Feb 13
Ya.I am not married.so we have no more chance to make a sollution on misunderstandings.So we quarrel almost 20 days in a month.. :)
@jirojoyman (458)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 13
almost of my girl friend has the same opinion like you. pillow is their partner. and they can sleep with other pillow. but i think pillow is my partner it was when i feel so blue and i need to tke arest so the first one in my mind is pillow...,pillow...pillow...,hahahaha...
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
22 Feb 13
Oh..I see.. :)In my view,Every girl will be very favour to pillow.Most of my friends say this same thing to me.Your girl friend is extremely right.Thanks for sharing this.. :)
@mondaylover (183)
• Poland
21 Feb 13
My friend has a pillow with a face of a Dean from "Supernatural". I think it would be weird to cry into your pillow while that guy stares at you. I slept once in her bed and I gently placed the pillow beside me. As for my pillow, I feel very comfortable with it like it's my old friend but I don't think I ever cried while pressing my face to it. It's rather my pillow that has a reasons to cry since I'm not very gentle with it at night.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
21 Feb 13
Yaa..It's okay friend..You can try it later.When some sorrows come toy your mind, You can try this way to reduce that pain..Thank you..
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
19 Mar 13
Hi Dassodils: I think that's sweet and it actually indicates me that you must be a very emotional person. Cuddling your pillow is a good way to express your emotions in private when you don't have someone to share them or simply when you need your own space and maybe put some ideas in order.
ALVARO
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
13 Mar 13
yes,i actually used my pillow before when i need to cry out loud or even when to shout out loud,i used my pillow so that no one will hear me or to lessen the sound come from my mouth,and aside from that pillow sometimes can be use to cry and help you to sleep well.
@jirojoyman (458)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 13
yeah almost of my friends(girl) has the same opinion as you. they also feel that pillow is their friend. and they can't sleep with other pillow. but i have the extreme one is she always bring her favourite pillow to everywhere and anywhere she goes. but i think pillow is also my partner, when i feel so blue and i need to take a rest one thing and the first one come from my mind is pillow...pillow...pillow...hahahaha....,
