are we all are really different..??
By maurya83
@maurya83 (923)
India
February 22, 2013 12:56am CST
Think once before saying yes..I dont know how it entered my head but it has been swirling in there for a couple of days and I an not help but wonder if it is rigged..If we all are different, we interpret things differently, we absorb them differently too then how can we all deduct the same learnings?? We all have different life-style, different culture, different language, different thinking patterns, different people and circumstances around..we all are differently responsible for our mistakes and failures but how we learn almost same lessons of life..? You ant deny this..take mylot for example, we agree on discussions on life and social things most of the time only way of expression is different, haven't you felt after reading other members' responses and discussions that 'ooh this person's thinking or life or life incident(s) match so much to me..? a few exceptions are everywhere..we all are different but same too..
8 responses
@lampar (7584)
• United States
22 Feb 13
That is right, we all are different in some ways even though quite similar in certain way. With so many billion of people in our planet, it is quite natural to have some many differences among us like culture, language, idea, thought, etc... as you mentioned. That is what make our world a fun and interesting place to live and learn, if all of us can see them from the positive side, these differences and diversity don't set us apart, they encourage us to explore and learn from each other, it will make our life more meaningful and exciting. 
@lampar (7584)
• United States
25 Feb 13
From person to person comparison, we actually have more similarity than differences. Physically, majority of us have a pair of eye and ear, one nose, two legs and two hand, ten fingers, hair over our top, one big mouth, and also share many same inner desire and emotion like want to be the best we can do, strive for a good life, and successful future, loving our parent, siblings and our friends. Add 1+2+3=6 most of the time, so on and so forth...., not much of differences in reality once we get out of the comfort inside our cocoon, and face the facts. 
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
22 Feb 13
People experience the almost the same difficulties in life. However, people differ in the approach and other situations that affects their decisions in getting over them.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
23 Feb 13
Yes, I do agree with you. We have problems that may seem to be the same as the other person, but the whole story may not be the same at all, as to the cause of it and the people involved.
@redredrose (1105)
• United States
23 Feb 13
Yes everyone is very different in so many way but still the same in so many ways as well. We all think differently see things differently but also the same in ways too. Some people agree on things or see things the same because they are the same religion or ethnic background. Tho some people see things differently that are the same age religion etc. It just really depends on the person and how they think.
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
23 Feb 13
Very nice discussion and thought provoking too! When looking at it as a bigger picture, you are right. We all may come from very different places but our experiences, responses and feelings can be alike.
I feel, that even if we are all different, it's our caring for others and consideration for others that binds us all together.
We might all have a different approach to the end result, but it's our kindness that leads the way. In short, there are a ton of just nice people out there 
@jeanneyvonne (5501)
• Philippines
24 Feb 13
We are all different but it depends if you wish to use that difference to isolate yourself from others. Some people place too much differences because they don't wish to mingle with people who don't understand or live by their ideas or principle.but we are all the same human beings and sometimes we experience the same issues and troubles. It's only up to the person to broaden that divide or take the step make the divide a little less.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
3 Mar 13
Many times I have felt a 'connection' with someone as they are echoing the way I feel and think, they are kind of like a 'soul mate' you are on the same lines, virtually think the same and have the same opinions, that in itself is wonderful, but I often wonder whether the same connection would be there offline than it is online. Don't you think we are less different offline than we are online? It is true we all have the same emotions, all humans are given emotions, it's how we use them and how we manage them that make us different.
@Dannazhu (7)
• China
22 Feb 13
Different people from different country definitely will have many things different such as culture, thinking about life, etc. but we are also definitely will have many things the same because we are human. There are so many many people in the world, it is impossible if everyone have all different opinion for one question. maybe you and me will also have something the same too.
