Slim or Fat ????

for me I really love my body now, a slim fitted body. sometimes I can control my balance diet but sometimes I cant especially if our dish is too delicious. all I only need is to maintain this..

I think that when people are young and in child baring years we look for a slim, healthy partner that attracts us. I am retired and divorced from my husband. He was very thin and tall. I wasn't really into the thin but always have been attracted to the tall. I think everyone is different and likes different things.

Well for my hubby, I want him to stay in medium size, not too slim and not too fat either. I desire that he stays fit though. I think what matters most is for the person to be healthy and fit all the time and that could be achieve well if he maintains the right weight all the time. To be overweight or underweight is not good. It is unhealthy to be underweight and just as unhealthy to be overweight so a person must strive to maintain the ideal weight for his height and age.

Chubby is not bad as long as you are not overweight, now being too fat is unhealthy and kind of unattractive too. But still keep in mind for not increasing your weight too much, because once you gain too much fat it'll be difficult to make it down again. You need a moderation.

well the person that comes first is you then that of your partner 2nd keep in mind all the bad issues if your over weight but you are the one who pays for it in the end

i prefer to be slim but i am fat, because after i gave birth its hard for me to lose weight.

I think it differ from people to people. I think some people like slim people while others like chubby. I like chubby.

I also prefer to be slim rather than fat. From the day I was a kid, the society where I have been living have always stressed out the preference towards slim people. I know this might be a bias thing but today a lot of us are more inclined to be attracted to material things. So I think it is not that wrong to say that I have to follow what the others are thinking. It's hard to think of the opposite, anyway, because it's like fighting the whole world. I hope you know what I mean.

I am slim since high school but I want to gain weight. Many envy me because I eat whatever I want but I also envy those who are plump. How I wish to put on weights fast but until now I am still slender. Please share information here if you gain weight after work out.

For me, I have to say that physical appearance wasn't really something that concerned me when I was dating. Instead, I have to say that for me, it was a lot more about a person's personality and sense of humor. In saying that, I am able to say without lying that when I was not married I did date some men that were very slender and I dated some other men that were not very slender. I also have to say, that I would never be the kind of person that would change my physical appearance because of the fact that was something that my lover wanted me to do.

Hi Dassodils: The first thing you have to think in my opinion is if you are healthy with your current way. If so, then you have to think how you feel better. Don't do things just thinking to make people happy. Your own perception and your self confidence are your priority. If you think you would feel better if you lose some extra weight and this doesn't affect your health do it. If your perception of your body is positive you'll probably be happier and more confident and people will see this beauty in your attitude. ALVARO

for me i would rather and always choose to be a slim because i can move the way i want if i am slim and aside from that i can wear many clothes compare to the fat one,slim always have a good look for everyone,and slim is also a sexy to others.

hi!!! my boyfriend also want me to be fat i mean chubby but i don't like it i just my body slim as it. i'd try to become chubby 2 years ago and i its not fit on me so i tried to reduce again i talked to my lover and he understand it. just try to talk with him.

I want to gain weight for me to know also what would I look like if I get fattier than the usual. My boyfriend had a very huge or chubby girlfriend in his past relationships and he wants me also to be like them. I feel so insecure about that idea of comparison but I am looking forward and I am not closing doors for that possibility to gain weight because in some point I aimed that goal also.

Some people are really conscious about their body appearance.There are some who could easily reduced or loss weight without exerting much effort but others find it hard to do so. If you like your weight and is healthy, I think you should not bother to gain more just to please your lover.He was attracted to you the way you are why should he want to change that, just my opinion.

Just be yourself. Why change for someone? Why can't he change to like slim? If you have to change to be accepted, Oh boy, you are going to be a shape-shifter after some time. All the best to you. Isn't it easier to just be who you are and who you want to be?

I have not thought. I like my husband either way I have no preference at all.

I wouldn't change my body to appease my partner. I'd do it for myself. If I want to remain slim, then I will remain slim no matter what other people say. Just as long as I am having a healthy lifestyle. I prefer my partner to be just right. Not too fat, not too thin. It would be a turn on if he has some abs though but if my partner doesn't have them then that is okay too. As long as my partner is healthy and strong, that is good enough for me.

Sincere to say,as a man,I like my partner look a little bit fleshy.It makes the feeling more warm and stimulates each others's sentiment more intimate.

Hi I think people chooses something different from them,if they are fat they like slim people and vice-versa,just like me that i am slim but i like my partner some chubby.