Homophobic Godfather

Strange that he has so much focus on your son and not his own He does have issues. Is he so overly 'protective' of your son because he feels he's already failed his own? It is an odd statement for him to say he feels his son is going to grow up gay. I would talk to him. He has to understand that your son is your son and he is already a parent to his own children. If he is trying to overshadow your authority with your son then he is being down right disrespectful to you. Regardless of his phobia, he needs to understand that he's crossing the lines of a friendship here.

OMG he is going to drive your son crazy. First of all "lollipops" is he kidding me? Kojak sucked on a lollipop throughout his series on TV. You couldn't find anyone more macho then him at that time. He has deep rooted problems and I wouldn't had made him the godfather. Didn't you know how he was before you named him the godfather? Action figures are for boys. I don't understand because its an action figur DOLL? He needs therapy and I would definitely keep him away from your son if I were you, until he gets the help he needs. He will be nothing but trouble for him especially when your son gets older. Something must have happened to him when he was younger for him to be this way.

Have you asked him if he's trying to fight off his own homosexual demons? He needs to realize the time that he's living in. Homosexuality is much more accepted these days. There are worse character flaws for your kids to grow into besides homosexuality. For example, they could grow up as judgemental, unaccepting 'homophobes'. How does this man treat people of other races or women? I would be more worried about the way he's acting being rubbed off on my child. Forcing action figures on him wont make him less gay if that is what he is born to be. My daughter loved airplanes, dinosaurs and getting muddy where my nephew liked to play house and barbie dolls. Now that they are older he is definately a rowdy boy and she is a girly girl. You need to let them discover themselves and figure out what they like and who they are. I never sent her to school and asked her if she had a boyfriend or if any boys were cute or forced 'boy' on her. That's not for me to decide. Is your son's father around or is his god father his only male influence? If the father is around I would ask him how he feels about the situation. I do feel like the godfather is putting way too much focus on whether or not he turns out gay. It seems like it is a huge topic to him and that is going to have negative affects on your son in my opinion if, at such a young age, that is of main importance. I also think it's sad that since he assumes his son is going to be gay he sweeps him under the rug and tries to over do it with the homocontrol. He's your son and you know him best. Let him do, like and wear what makes him happy and accept and love him no matter what. I fear he's going to get a complex or try to be someone he's not so he can be accepted. I'm not saying he's going to be gay by any means but trying your hardest to be completely opposite of gay can have terrible effects and morals as well.

Sorry you chose such a man as the godfather of your son. Although we sometimes have to be around witth such people, I would never give my son him as a godchild. I don`t know what you can do besides not letting him get too near your child.

There must be some bad experience he had when he was a child that made him become that way. I mean, it is normal to tell our kids to behave in a manner appropriate for their gender and age. But from the way that your son's godfather is acting, he seems to be going overboard.