men hide things from their wife but how from God?

Well one thing is for sure, people have secrets and we can't hide them from the Almighty. No matter how hard we try, even if we are good at hiding it from people we know, but to Him, nope we can't hide, we have nowhere to run.

You're comparing two entities here - God and people. God is an Almighty Being who, according to teachings, is perfect and very loving. he understand people and their nature, after all did he create humans? One the other hand, you have people who are less than perfect and judgmental. Some humans are also very selfish and they tend to gravitate their feelings and situations to please themselves. They often think of thy self beofre others. If they are hurt, they often express it in a very visible manner. If you do a thing to someone expect an instant reaction. These two are two completely different and don't expect them to retreat in the same manner all the time.

God sees and knows all. You might not think it is a big deal, but it isn't what you think, it is what God thinks. My husband cheated on my while in another town working...told me about it when he came home drunk, denied it the next morning. And it went on from there, but he thinks that since he told God he is sorry, everything it fine and well. But God says you have to ask for forgiveness, not just from him but from the one you wronged..in this case..me. He hasn't and just saying God forgive me...isn't all that is needed. You have to be sincere and accept you did wrong and do what you need to do to get his forgiveness and that includes asking for it from the one you did wrong. AND..then you have to not do it again or be away from it. He brought this girl back to town with him and they have been texting and talking ever since. I asked hima bout it and he said she is just a friend that is a girl and I shouldn't have a problem with that. I said she is a friend that is a girl that you had an affair with. He denies it again but still..even if they hadn't...he is doing somethign behind his wifes back that is wrong, hurts her and is disrespectful to her..and to his relationship with GOd, but he thinks that since they are just "talking" that is isn't an issue...talking behind my back...that is an issue...to GOd. So as long as he is doing this, he is going to hell on judgement day. He doesn't think so as he is decreeing it to be no big deal...but in God's eyes...it is a big deal. The smell of ignorance3? This is more the smell of self righteousness and arrogance. In the end...it is God's way, not our way. You make the choice

There is a song that we sometimes sing during worship service called "There's an All seeing Eye Watching You". It reminds us that God sees everything, and we will be held accountable in the judgment for every wrong that we do.

I doubt it has to do with gender if people have secrets. There are all kinds of. There are men who hide their cheating for their wifes or family but there are also who are open about it (and tell their wife to except it or to move out). There are also plenty of women who decide to ignore it! As long as women prefer to stay blind for what is going on, as long as they accept it (since this is what you do if you close your eyes and are too afraid to leave) men can do as they like. And god? You really think god is not busy enough and able to keep an eyo on millions of people? This besides of the fact we all have brains, we all can think, we all can raise other people (children ánd adults) to do what is right.

Your topic is well worthy for discussion as this moral erosion are gradually damaging our honesty as well as family peace. It happens increasingly and threat to our ethical relationship. This crime is committed by both man and woman because it takes two to make a clap. The most religions do not approve any physical relation before marriage.It requires religion ritual to perform. So why this sinful act goes on between two parties. You are absolutely right, Almighty is everywhere to watch all your good and bad activities.But what about our conscience.We all need to refrain from all sinful acts to make a peaceful society. Most importantly the faithful relationship between husband and wife should be respected by avoiding any immoral activities.

Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well yes u are absolutely right, no matter whatever things we might hide from our near and dear ones, things are never hidden from the Almighty. He takes note of all the things we are doing and then the results are set by Him only. so if we think that we r doing doing in secrecy then it is our wrong perception. What say?