i was unfriend by my brother at facebook so i blocked him.

He's your brother, I guess you guys should sort things out between the two of you. I was once unfriended by a friend too in facebook and my immediate reaction was the same, unblocked her. Now I have a pending friend request from her but I did not accepted it yet because I deactivated my account. I will accept it soon as soon as I organized my timeline settings. I am willing to forget that, it's just facebook and not my real life though.

No matter what happens, he is still your brother. When your pain due to the incident has subsided, I hope you will realize that. Did you ever also considered why he needed the money that much? It could be that he's also in dire need. Besides, you owe him the money, so he should be the one to dictate how he wants to spend it. I would also be mad if you gave my money to another brother, if that is the intention and if that is how I want to spend my money, the I will do it myself. It is not yours to give. If you want to help your other brother, use your own money.

You can block each other, unfriend, unfollow or what ever it is called online but no matter how hard you try, both of you can never break the bond that ties the two of you that were sealed by your parents' blood..hopefully in due time your brother will realize that.

i still never had encounter that one of the member of the family nor relative to un-friend me in Facebook,and i am thankful for that,but i also do block someone but not a relative or family in Facebook,and hoping that it will never happen to me on what happen to you.

oh this is nice but still annoying brothers do not understand. difficult situation. I do not know what to tell you. you might just have to wait to have a little more patience and things will work out OK. good day ~

I feel you, I mean you have every right to feel bad because you are right in your own point of view. He is your brother, nonetheless, yet he treats you like other just because of the money. BUT why don't you put yourself in you brother's shoes, how would you feel, waiting for his payment because you badly need the money too or the money is already allotted for future use or whatever reason you badly need it. It is your right of how to dispose it, not your brother's. First of all, you don't have the right to decide for anyone let alone your brother, just be thankful that he lent you his money in the first place, don't defeat it by deciding for himself. I understand why your bro unfriended you but you know, In time after all the pain has subsided down, he is your brother after all and he will eventually forgive you, OR best thing is talk things out with him, explain your side, say sorry, hear out what he has to say first,Initiate the reconciliation, it doesn't hurt.