sigh! This onw I keep on AVOIDING... =(
By AR Dianon
@dianon_ice14 (461)
Philippines
February 24, 2013 7:30pm CST
I know, for people who were reading my previous discussions are aware that I am in a serious and stable relationship right now.
I had this FRIEND we were so close and we known each other since we were in college. He courted and I kinda like him but we didn't end up being together because,,,,, actually I don't know why,, haha,,, well,,,, after few years later...we had our own lives and we communicate once a while through facebook.
Just this last week, we bumped into each other again because of some common friends and I must say that I am happy sseing him again.
So, we became super close again and he always says that he still likes me until now. It never changed. HE is also special to me, maybe because I feel so me with him and be anything that I want. H still finds mw cute even if I fart or burp while he is around...
Just last night me and my friends are together (including him) I just felt weird, like ,,, the high school thing when they see theiir crush and it alarmed be so much.... I don't know really and I don't want to entertain thaty weird feeling... but sometimes I just can't help not thinking it.
huhuhuhuhuhuhuh,,,,,
6 responses
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
25 Feb 13
Thats great... I hope something great comes out of this relationship for you. And you are happy for the rest 
of your life. Good luck to you.
of your life. Good luck to you.@dianon_ice14 (461)
• Philippines
25 Feb 13
NO don't be,,,, I have a boyfriend,, that's why it's not possible
@dianon_ice14 (461)
• Philippines
25 Feb 13
nice to meet you as well... You know what, everytime I see your picture I never miss a chance to look back because you look like my boyfriends ex,, haha,,,
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
25 Feb 13
Oh I see now, Sorry I misunderstood you here. very nice to meet you here. Im maria...
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
25 Feb 13
that is a great feeling when you think you have feelings for someone. make sure that it's really because you have feelings for him for real and it's not just that you like that he likes you. there is a difference.
@dianon_ice14 (461)
• Philippines
25 Feb 13
it's not that.... hmmmm,,, maybe I like him in a manner that we've known each other well and he's been ...there all this time..
BUT yeah,,, it's not good because I have a boyfriend.. that's why I don't want to tolerate it =(
@choconut (297)
• Philippines
26 Feb 13
then you have to weigh it. Being in a relationship and feeling something for someone else isn't a good thing.
Weigh your boyfriend and this special friend, who among them weighs more? who do you want to be with? doesn't mean you're considering this means you're a playgirl or something, but this has to be since its driving you crazy already. You have to make a choice now, is it him or you boyfriend. Who makes you happy? Who do you see yourself with in the future? Who weighs more? Think about it, not once but a hundred times if you must.
Then if you choose your boyfriend you have to let that special friend go, and if you choose him you've got to tell your boyfriend that there's someone else. It's time for you to ask and admit to yourself who among them do you love? I hope you make your decision soon. God bless
@machatago (385)
• Philippines
25 Feb 13
Maybe that's what you get when you meet that person again for the first time, and especially if you two had some kind of history together. But it could also mean that its just a first time excitement or spark or better to put it like an infatuation. You now have a serious and stable relationship and if that relationship is pretty good, I think you should actually stick to that one since you and your current boyfriend are in a mutual understanding, and I'm sure you love him too right? It is not a guarantee that everything will turn out great with your old friend, you both are now living separate lives and if he can see that you are in a happy relationship with your significant other. I think he will be happy for the both of you and not try to come across in between which can be a problem in the end.
@aminul842700 (861)
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
25 Feb 13
Hi Dianon, it is sounds really very nice that you are maintaining very good relation with your boy friend. From your discussion it is guessed that you are maintaining a distance relation and after so many days, when you appeared in front of him, then you hesitated. I think, it is very usual after so many days. You can continue relation. There is no problem at all. Have a wonderful day.
@pomwango (1353)
• Kenya
25 Feb 13
you need to deal with the feeling you have for this guy otherwise it will also be a gauge on your current relationship.if you are in a serious relation you would not be mesmerised by this person so it should tell you there are still loose ends you need to tie.take care of this to avoid hurting your current partner.
@kathylabayan (106)
• Philippines
25 Feb 13
Charot! hehe, Well I think you're just overwhelmed by the attentions he pours on you, maybe you still have this "little not over him" thing completely but I think it's just a matter of time that your craziness towards him vanish. But it's not bad when you praise, or be attracted to someone other than your bf as long as you don't go overboard. But you know, if he actually likes and respects you, the fact that he knows you're in a relationship already I don't see the point of confessing his feelings again to you. It's up to you, God Bless Pril friend.. :)
@dianon_ice14 (461)
• Philippines
25 Feb 13
THANK YOU kathy.... infairnes with him, he respects everyrelationship that I have. He don;t interfere,, but even before he always lets me know how special I am to him, HE actually eveb madae a song for me,,,,
