I considered him to be with me in the future.
By wendylb
@wendylb (203)
Philippines
February 26, 2013 6:04am CST
I have a friend and he became so closed friend to me at time we have same activities attended. One common friend introduced him and I don't give any attention since he is not that I liked much. Even his presence on that activity I did not mind. Last time he calls me with special name and I ignore because I don't like him. And now that we are so distant to see each other, I missed him. As of now, my prayer is for him to be reserved for me since I considered him to be with me in the future. But, if ever he finds somebody special what I can do first is cry maybe and then move on the second.
Happy sunny smiles to all Mylot lovers. Have a nice day.
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11 responses
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
26 Feb 13
this is so nice to here I hope that you have told him this and if not i sure would before you loose him forever explain to him why you have not showed intest before
@wendylb (203)
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
Thank you for your advise. I liked telling him but I don't think he would like it if I make a first move to let him know my feelings. Maybe I should wait for him to do it. It takes brave man to do the first move. I just hope him happiness to wherever he is right now.
More smiles to you Black.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
27 Feb 13
It may take a brave man to make the first move but it takes a braver woman to step up to the plate I do wish you the best in no matter what you do and I wish you the best of happiness to the both of you and be well be safe and let us know what comes of it
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
27 Feb 13
All these feelings when we are attracted to someone seem to just come out of the blue at times. They are very hard to ignore. The best is to ride these feelings with as much sense as possible and seems to me you have all the right approach...
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@wendylb (203)
• Philippines
28 Feb 13
A lot of smiles I have right now for your comments. It is indeed truly very hard to ignore the feeling I have for him. Yes, I have all the chances to ride on this feeling but it seems I not brave enough to tell him. Anyways, all this I prayed. I'll be the happiest maybe if it is answered but if not I believe still there is best for me reserved.
So happy to hear from you. Have a nice day ahead.
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@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
26 Feb 13
this is a classic example of the development of attraction and positive feeling. it is not yet love, but it is getting there. the presence of the person might not cause some turmoil in our heart, but the absence does. then there is a feeling of longing to have the person in our midst again. it is at times unexplanable and undescribable.
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@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
27 Feb 13
tsk tsk tsk.... now you miss him. People never learned to appreciate another person until he/she is gone.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
28 Feb 13
that's the spirit.. nice to know this positive thoughts from you.
@jearl02 (211)
• Philippines
26 Feb 13
Hi wendylb,
That's good for you to feel that way. Hope it will inspire you somehow. I also appreciate the way to plan for whatever you will do if in case that friend of yours will find someone there. It is clear to me that you can really manage your feelings. In that case, you won't be living in fantasies.
Your situation might prove what they say that we only recognize the value of a person when he/she is no longer with us. Anyway, I know you can manage it and being inspired is a good way to start your day.
Keep the happiness. Have a nice day.
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@wendylb (203)
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
It keeps me to be inspired always now a days but I have to control my feelings. Thinking of him cause me sometimes in fantasies that's why I keep my self doing busy with the activities assigned to me and my schooling. Thanks also to my friends who keeps me updating of how he is doing and to hear him doing good it inspires me somehow.
@jonastabuena (2307)
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
how sad, have you ever tried to contact him now? maybe he miss you too, but he is just afraid to tell, that you might just ignore him or don't give attention to him, like you did before. Do you still have communication with each other?
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
Maybe yours is a case of "you never know how important something is until you lose it". But, I hope it's not yet too late for you. Try reconnecting with him and see if there is still some kind of future for both of you.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
Young love. . . that's how it is. It starts from teasing, as you said he called you a special name and ignored him. And once the other one is far, you will realize that you miss him. 
Good luck my friend. I hope your prayer for him will be answered. 
Good luck my friend. I hope your prayer for him will be answered. @SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
1 Mar 13
My husband started getting me to notice him, by teasing me. I sure did noticed him after that. 
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
27 Feb 13
I totally understand your feeling, it is the best when you can live with your feeling so that don't worry much about the others things, just tell him and care how much you do care him, i really do believe that he can understand and feel your care, your heart.
best wish for you and him.
