This is my little family

February 26, 2013 9:22am CST
i have my own family now. With husband and my little son, yeah..this is my little family. How's everything moves so fast. i feel that i'm still a newly wed ^_^ but now i am a mother. i have more responsibility now. not only as a wife but also a mother. It's weird and frightened me sometimes.Can i do it? Can i be good wife for my husband? can i be a good partner for him? Can i teach and educate my child well? Oh my God, All of those questions sometimes fill in my mind. Well, yeah there's no school to be a wife and a mother..:)so i just do all my best. What about you friends? especially for you who have your own family....how do you feel? any tips me to be better?
7 responses
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
26 Feb 13
Don't worry too much, everything will fall into place and you will also fall into the role easily. Once you become a mother, it will (usually) prompt you to put the needs of your baby first. You'll be fine.
2 Mar 13
hi raine..thaks for the strength to me...i have to push myself to be a good wife and mother..that what i should do...yeah you are right...everything will be fine :P
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
26 Feb 13
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i am extremely glad to hear about your short but sweet family. I know u would not be believing that u became a mother from a newly wed bride and i think u should now dwell in this reality that u have become a mother and i am pretty sure u will be a good wife and mother as well. Just take good care of your family. What say?
27 Feb 13
hi subhojit....thank you for your comment....well, now i still live with my parents. while my husband in other town. So, my mom still help me in everything although i handle my son by myself. But next two months, i will leave my parents and live with my husband. You know, start from that moment i will manage everything by myself.Cooking, cleaning the house, doing all of the house core, taking care of my husband and son..Ohh that's just another new beginning for me. well i feel so curious with it but i can't imagine either how busy i am... :P but yeah..i believe that i can do it...
@machatago (385)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
That's nice that you have your little family now. Me I will be a mother soon, and let me tell you, I'm scared too. There are lot of questions and what ifs in my head. I guess we'll just try out best to be a good wife and mother to our family. I'm sure you will be.
• Indonesia
14 Mar 13
I am happy for your little family, it always become my dream too to have my own little or may be big family I am so in love with children especially when they are still a baby, so cute and I want to teach them how to do this and that. I can not wait till I have my own family with a little children play around me
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
8 Mar 13
Hi, Why are you so worried? You are lucky that you have so nice little family. Don't waste time in worrying about future. Everything will be alright. I have only son. He is 24 years old. I also have a small family and I am happy with my wife and son. I have completed 26 years of our marriage life. There were some difficulties but we faced it together.
@danix1982 (593)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
i have my own family also we have 2 kids a boy and a girl, i really love them so much, they are my life. even i am a working mom i see to it that i have bonding with my 2 kids once in a week or every time i go home at night i always have present for them, and i make them happy. :)
• India
3 Mar 13
Yeah, there is no school to learn about relationships. Life is the best and greatest teacher. I think all of us keep pressurizing ourselves and put a lot of expectations which makes us doubt our abilities. With time, everything comes. None of us can be perfect, but we always have the choice to learn, grow and become better.