Love Confession

Poland
February 26, 2013 4:13pm CST
Sometimes we can't help loving somebody even though we know our love is just one sided. But unspoken love confessions tend to scream inside your head every time you see a person you love. So should you confess to him/her just to get it off of your head or should you save yourself the hurt. What would you do? Tell your true feelings or try to forget?
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14 responses
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
26 Feb 13
i am that way sadly i still love my ex and its been that way since day one but the love is and has been one sided I was used
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
3 Mar 13
I think it is always good to have double sided love than one sided love. May be you can talk with your ex and patch it up and have good relationship and married life.
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
27 Feb 13
It is very difficult to make a decision when it comes to confessing the love you have for somebody that does not show you that the feel the same way about you. I try to look for love elsewhere because I didn't think the one I loved returned the feelings. Love might not be right to act on in some cases but speaking it is nearly always a gift. We all need to know we are loved. It's that sort of silliness that leads to craziness in others......but, I guess most of us here ARE crazy.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
27 Feb 13
I had in past and l would in future too, if l have such feelings for some one. What the worst the other one would do refuse my purposal, nothing much than that. But atleast l will be free from any kind of misunderstanding or obligation
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@jricky1 (6800)
• China
27 Feb 13
I'll try to balance how much i love the person and decide whether to tell him.It really depends on your feelings and one shouldn't miss their relationships to regret.Unless he is got married.But i do hope dear friends in mylot grab those chances and enjoy.
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• Philippines
27 Feb 13
It really depends on the person you have feelings with... Like for example,, you can not tell a person that you love him/her specially when they are in a stable relationship because you will look like a WRECKER.... BUT, if you qare both free. WELL, GO AHEAD... IN LOVE,,, you should not expect anything in RETURN right?? you JUST love that person without expecting any in return.. BUT of course you need to be WISE as well.... BALANCE everything...
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• India
27 Feb 13
That depends, If the person is already in a relationship with someone else then I wont confess. But if I am sure he is not, then may be rather then telling it to him directly you can start giving some sort of signals and hint so that he can feel the unsaid feelings then observe his reaction to those actions which can a way to read his heart and mind. If you see possibilities then you can go ahead and tell him. But knowing that he does not love at all then it should be kept to yourself only. Because for me rejection is something I hate most and when you know that you are going to be rejected then why to make it explicit.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
27 Feb 13
Nothing can compare to the unconditional love. And we know the universal truth is "Love is immortal"
@machatago (385)
• Philippines
28 Feb 13
Just tell that person and get it done with, I know it's easier said than done. But this will help you feel at ease, at least that person knows how you truly feel.You might never know that person feels the same way about you too, but can't muster up the courage to say it. But if ever that person rejects you for some reason, at least you've known the answer a little earlier. So go and tell that person before everything is too late.
@SinfulRose (3527)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Feb 13
I've never been in that kind of love before so I honestly don't know what to do in that kind of situation. But knowing my personality, I might keep it quiet and just forget about it or say to myself that I'm just losing my mind and I need to cool it. I'll just zip it and move mechanically as I do everyday. I'm a very big pessimist in love matters so I'm the worst adviser for it.
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@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
26 Feb 13
If I knew that I was the only one who had the feelings then I would keep it to myself. Because if it was like a friendship or something, I'd rather keep the friendship then lose it with telling the person of my feelings for them and then plus they would probably feel awkward around me.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
I think that the other person deserves to know how you truly feel about him/her. Who knows, love between you may just flourish. However if that person is already committed to somebody else, I guess the best way to deal with it is to just forget about how you feel and find another person to love.
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@dadindine (230)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
I usually keep it to myself because more often than not, I fall for someone I know who doesn't like me the way I like him. While it's not bad to just confess to the person, but I didn't see the point in doing so because I knew I wasn't gonna get the response I wanted to have. I was sure he saw me as just "a friend."
• Indonesia
28 Feb 13
If it’s me I’ll just keep it quiet for the fear that person who I fall in love is not love me back. But I can’t really say that, since I’ve never experienced it before. I can say that I’ve never fall in love for real for any person. In my 25 years of life I’ve never experience to love somebody romantically. I know there’s something wrong with me, but I am not really sure for what it is…I’m kind of aloof for love, maybe I’m afraid to get hurt so I’ve never fall in love with somebody. I’ve ever admire someone, but that’s just about it.
@cmania (207)
• Portugal
28 Feb 13
I´m in that kind of lvoe if I can call it o.o like that. But I would just wait until I stop to like , If you know it´s just one sided. BUt big people should say it ! We enver know if you have some luck or not xP