When my kids are angry...
By Ifamous
@ifa225 (14461)
Indonesia
February 26, 2013 7:55pm CST
I can not resist to not angry too
It is hard for me to calm down and patience when they're speaking outloud to me
I try to lower my voice and push it but to see their reaction
I just blow up
aahh.. I guess I need to practice more to calm my anger :(
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4 responses
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
27 Feb 13
Hi sweetie.
No matter how angry you get at people, just smile in their face and walk away.
Teach your children that.
You have no idea how angry that can make them.
Don't let people test you, you are better than that.
Now smile and sing ring a ring a rosie.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
27 Feb 13
Hi ifa
Just ignore the moments when your kids try and make you angry. That is the easiest way to avoid getting angry. if they are loud and yelling, dont listen to all those, but let them keep on telling whatever they tell. Later, you can tell them to be more polite in a different tone and they would understand.
I know that is quite difficult but trust me, once you master this - you would be better off. And also, after the yelling, shouting is over, why not go and have a glass of water! It works too for many
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
Anger can be expressed without necessarily making trouble. If your kids are angry, then you have the right to discipline them. You need not shout, just talk to them and tell them it is not right to shout and create trouble. If they don't follow then you can always use the rod. Spanking the child when they disobey is the best way to show them that you as a parent has the authority to discipline them. You can always do the spanking. Don't do it because you are angry with them but rather you spank them because you want them to be molded into good kids God want them to be.