A myLotter wants to die

Yes, from her posts I have always felt this user is depressed in real life. I really hope she will get some professional help with whatever her problems are. She seems so sad all the time and shows on her own statement: "Thus for every one happy moment, there will be a ten times of sadness."

Hi sweetie. How are ya? I read it and cannot really see what the problem is. No offense. There is so many people with so much worries, sadness and really nothing to look forward to each day, but still they cope and deal with every day life. To take your own life is not only a sin, but it isn't the way to go. One cannot die if it isn't your time. I know it sound rude, but dealing with life ain't always fun. There is always a simple solution, we only tend to look for the hardest one. I really hope she will be alright though. A hobby should keep her busy, i hope.

I hope that the support system here on myLot helps her enough that she can make herself go seek professional help closer to home.

I saw part of the post yesterday and didn't think to respond to it til i saw this conversation. Tho i am the 44th person to respond to him i hope he still sees my response and reads all of them and does the right thing. i am now scared for him but hope hes ok. I thought he just wanted to end my lot or was just tired i didn't read the whole discussion. Also i think if he was putting that on my lot hes looking for or wanting help because if he didn't want help he'd just kill himself and not tell anyone on my lot or anyone ever. That was a great response from this person and i hope he takes it to heart and doesn't do anything harmful to himself. I wish we could know how hes doing like an update or something.

let's cheer her up... i think we should bombard her with messages that will encourage her to live life to the fullest. To appreciate life more...

Those are all inspiring and encouraging words. I hope that mylotter would take them by heart and wake up from the good reality- that life is still such a wonderful thing. I had the same dilemma when I was in high school. I was very young back then. We had financial problems before (until now we do but before was way way worse). My family was falling apart. My dad worked as a company guard of an actor's family before but he had to quit his job because of health issues. My family lost it's primary source of income and then our store closed. We were just renting a house so we didn't know where to get money. I would do part-time jobs. My father and mother would roam around the neighborhood and ask for bottles and old newspapers sell them to earn money. I got fed up every once in a while and would feel like ending my life. I had a reputation to take care in school as well because I was one of the achievers and I don't want to lose what I already have. I get sick and would often be rushed to the hospital because of those sickness that didn't affect me before. I wanted to end my life just to end it all. One day, I just broke down to pieces and I was in class that time. My teacher talked to me and told me, "If you are feeling down because you keep on looking up, try to look down." She told me to think about those people who are in a worse situation than me. She told me not to be selfish and introduced me to God. After reflecting on what she said, I started noticing my friends and those other people who were concerned of me. I started noticing the little things in life and have been thankful for them since then. I thank God for introducing me to different kinds of people and letting me learn from them.

Personally there will always be people who will never believe people and say anything even if it causes more hurt feelings and disbelief. Personally there will be people who will always be like this, until something happens in their life to change this.

No Offence. But, I wonder why many have to act as Gods for some! If someone wants to die, why not? No one can judge what a person is going through to get motivated to kill himself/herself - and if anyone does judge, s/he is doing it just for the sake of trying. I dont have anything to say about the wish of the OP of that discussion as I too was in that situation where I was almost ready with the killing things. And because I have been on those sides, I know, when it gets to those edges, things become momentary. And no suggestion seems apt and enough. As for the response... Well, you can write better than that if you have the skills.So doesnt bother me much either.

I hope that she would look back at the good things that has happened to her life than sulk on her problem now. No one, absolutely no one is spared from problems. It is just the matter of knowing the right approach on making life easier and to take it as a challenge and strive to do better in the future.

I also have read that discussion and at that moment couldn't understand what to respond to her..the discussion has found so many responses, i hope it will help her to overcome that mental status..

Hi, It is really sad that someone wants to end the life because of the sorrows and difficulties in life. But sometimes situation arises so badly that one becomes helpless and goes under depression. at this time mental support is necessary, some encouraging words are important. It will help the depressed person to get out of the depression. But some negative responses would make the person negative towards life. So we should try to get happiness by making others happy.

Hello friend ! So sad she is my friend ! We became friends because of Mylot . I never thought she is that emotional because she is the one who kept on encouraging me with life. She is very hard working . I don't know her that much but i know she is a good person. I was in her shoe also once and i have written such thing also in poetry form but i find writing it as one way of healing my pain . When i am already very down , writing becomes my solace and comfort and i never cared about what readers will be saying , all i knew is i have poured all the pain inside. That is why in one of my blog people are no longer shock with my sad lines , like they are used with it. I do hope and pray Aira is in good condition now. I hope she made that discussion as a vent only and not in real gesture. Life is very painful but it is still beautiful , right friends !