Do what you want

United States
February 26, 2013 9:49pm CST
The feeling I felt at 4 o'clock this morning is still with me. I've been snappy and just want to be left alone so that I can think. I love what happened to when I finally went to bed, NOT. I totally hate it when I feel a hand on my left side (I lay on my right.)only just to SHAKE ME, which results in nothing more than annoying the hell out of me because I'm trying to sleep. Next day, explanation is "I wanted some." *blink* ... What? "Don't shake me. Don't ever shake me. I would never figure out you want some that way." I got woken up early this morning by a phone call and that just set my day off on the wrong foot right there. I try to explain to him when I was available for the UMPTEENTH TIME, to not shake me like that. "I'm sorry." Don't say sorry for Christ's sake. Simply stop it or I'm going to start throwing you to the floor. Needless to say, I spent the rest of my day annoyed as hell and irritated. I just wanted to be left alone so I can relax and think. I told him to do whatever the hell he wanted. I ended up with a sulking person in the home. How the heck am I supposed to get anything done like this? Do you find it annoying when a person just hangs around when suddenly you say to do whatever the hell they want? I really want some input here because I need to get rid of this bad energy.
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@miryanag (346)
• Bulgaria
27 Feb 13
Do what you want is a dangerous statment. Try to calm down and when you do sit down and talk to him. Explain how you feel and why. Give him arguments and I think that he will understand you better.
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• United States
28 Feb 13
The only thing he has learned by now is to not touch me. Now it's me that has to approach him and that just doesn't cut it.
@kprofgames (3089)
• United States
27 Feb 13
Well I understand being asleep and be woken up that way. It's annoying. On his side of it he's taking it as rejection. Which might not have been the case if he had approached you differently. I agree that communication is the key here. I'm a person that values my sleep!!! But if waken in a nicer way....then can be more receptive to his attention LOL Simply tell him what you do want. If he's feeling frisky, then tell him a way you'd like to be woken up. He simply doesn't know. I think when people start getting that bad energy they become unapproachable, even in their sleep; so sit down and talk to him and tell him what you want. If he makes you happy, then he benefits from it too. Might be fun!
• United States
28 Feb 13
I've told him like five times to cut that out. I finally told him if he doesn't stop shaking me I will push him off the bed. I shouldn't have to repeat myself. I told him once what will work but it falls on deaf ears.