Comfort Zone :(
By harmony01
@harmony01 (64)
India
February 27, 2013 9:38am CST
Its so difficult for me to come out of my comfort zone. Even for the smallest things, if I get comfortable with something, I feel very bad when any unwanted change occurs. For me changes are not welcome if I am not ready. For some people life should bring different colors and should not be monotonous but I like changes only when I want them to happen in my life and I do efforts for those changes.
I easily get attached to my surrounding and people around. I rarely want to change that.
Today in my office I got my seat changed due to change in project, and so all the team members will be new.On top of that one of my very good friend is relocating to other place and I am not liking.
Does it happen with me only or some more people like me are out there?
3 responses
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
27 Feb 13
I feel the same way here sometimes. I get that way when all seems well. As I know if im com
fortable with it, something is going to happen to mes sit all up. Kinda like you have said here. Have a great day there.
fortable with it, something is going to happen to mes sit all up. Kinda like you have said here. Have a great day there.@fannekhan (783)
• India
27 Feb 13
Most of us hate stepping out of our comfort zone. But why step out if you don't have a clear purpose for doing so?
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
27 Feb 13
Sometimes, others take us out of that zone. Thats what seems to happen to me here.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
27 Feb 13
This does not happen only to you but also to most of us. I think everyone has had such an experience because we humans are most likely the ones that get used to people and to things that are familiar to us.
It is how we are designed in my opinion. Say you grew up in the city, you are more likely used to people being on the move and busy most of the day. Unlike when you grew up in the provinces which is more laid back.
If for example I would be moved right now to another desk I would also feel what you have felt especially if in the new location you knew just a few people. Aside from the place you will also have to consider the new people you have to be with
That is normal. But in time you will get used to it already.
@harmony01 (64)
• India
28 Feb 13
Yes I'll try to get used to it as soon as possible but I feel that some people around me are not very concerned about they feel normal about it and moving is not a very big deal for them. But I compare myself with them I feel that I take things very seriously and changes are more difficult to adapt in my case.
@fannekhan (783)
• India
27 Feb 13
It happens to most of us. Who does not like familiar, unchallenging environment. People do not like to be challenged all the time, in fact some never like to be challenged at all. But the fact of the matter is The only thing permanent in life is change, so we had better get used to changes happening all around us, the sooner the better.
