Finding bestfriend
By shela21
@shela21 (68)
Philippines
February 27, 2013 7:34pm CST
I have lots of friends but until now i still dont know who is my bestfriends.most of the time i am thinking how can i find a bestfriend. I know there is no category.I heard that bestfriend is our worst enemies i dont think if that is true. Im happy when im with my friends all of them are part of my life considered as my friend.but its different if you have a bestfriend.
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11 responses
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
28 Feb 13
a best friend is a person that will have your back for any reason if your sick if you need a ride what ever it may be they will be by your side
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
28 Feb 13
Finding a friend I guess is easy but choosing the best of them is not. Being the best of them will come in time. You will just know it when you are not expecting it. So, just take your time and you will know them when you see the sign through their action or deed without expecting anything in return. Someone who is always there with you rain or shine.
@webgirl01 (689)
• United States
28 Feb 13
Hi there! i used to wonder also about having bestfriends or having lots of friends or even a group. But now, I stopped since I'll wait or when time comes along. Usually I hate the word "best friend" because I did have that kind of friend who were best friends but then we had on and off friendship and other worse stuff. This "best friend" i use to have was from high school. But I had other friends but they drifted away during elementary. I rarely don't have any friends. Now, as years pass by. I gain some few friends. I do have consider have a new best friend but I rarely say the word "best friend" and rarerly once in awhile hear that word. Yes a best friend can be a worst enemy but it's up to you and the friend to make it work or if you feel it's not worth it, then move on or wait till things get better. The friends I'm with right now, hopefully they will be the friends that will be part of my life. I'm still praying for that. I don't to drift away from the current friends I have except I did kinda slipped or drift away from the "best friend"/close friend from high school though she is mutual friends with the friends I have right now. I guess you can say a best friend is a special friend/closest friend you can rely on for support.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
28 Feb 13
Well, I personally, friends with whom I attend, I only have three! Rather, few but good!
I've never been engaged and therefore never involved in a romantic relationship.
I know that today with the help of technology such as the Internet, it is easier to approach to make new friends or even find a soul mate.
but to me, at least for the moment, that I do not care!
@dianon_ice14 (461)
• Philippines
28 Feb 13
You don't find bestfriend,, IT just comes..
It is a person who is always TRUE to you and sometimes becasue they are so honest they don'y fear telling you even the WORST part you have.
They are always at your side even in the worst situations. The one you are most comfortable of sharing your secrets with.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
28 Feb 13
I think you will know when you have met your best friend. thy will be the one there for you in good times and bad ones.
@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
28 Feb 13
Hello Shela, I hope that you are fine, you´ll know who is your bestfriend when you face a very rough problem. If you have issues, and he/she is beside you without leaving you alone, you´ll know that he/she is your bestfriend.
Blessings Shela... dainy
@webgirl01 (689)
• United States
28 Feb 13
Hi there! I do sometimes wonder about having best friends or lots of friends. But to have a best friend, just find someone who you can trust or relate to the most. And best friends can be your worst enemies but that depends the person. Just forgive the person. If you gave them more chances and are tired of it, then i guess move on or cool off on the friendship. i used to wonder about how i can have a best friend or who i can trust to have a bestfriend. Well I did have this friend who was closest and a best friend from high school. But I also hated some of her characteristics as I gotten to know this friend and got close to her. I also felt i'm not good to tell it as it to a person about how they act or how they take advantage of me. I didn't really know how to make friends. I drifted much during the early 20's with her. Now this friend and I don't talk much anymore since im just distancing her so that I don't be too close to her before. And sometimes I hate the word best friend because the friend that I did have. But currently I have a different best friend but I don't really say the word "best friend" or hear of it. I still forgive this person but then at times I still hold grudges from the past about anything that has happened but not much anymore.
@nita04 (268)
• Philippines
28 Feb 13
shela21, you can find your bestfriend in the lowest moment of your life.
@valorieesquilona (442)
• Philippines
28 Feb 13
that is really hard but don't make life so complicated for you. don't find a best friend because it will come in time. don't focus on finding the best when you are happy being with the rest. don't label friends because friends are always real and if they aren't, they are not your friends.