Now a Days i am really hurting so much

Hey Rahul, I think i responded to your other discussion about your GF. Well hearing this story here is my response: Ask her if she still wants to be with you, and if she does want to be your GF, then she must act accordingly and tell her to stop denying you. i feel that you are showing her you love her so much and so even if she was acting inappropriately you still are there with her - so she knows and she is indeed abusing you for being to kind or that you love her so much. To answer your questions: 1. There are many reasons why she would deny you, and some just came to mind are the following: she is not really in love with you, she is not proud to be your gf or to have you as her bf, she is probably not ready to have a bf and most probably too, her family knows there is no bf(you), some though would deny being in a relationship so they can get to know other people (interesting to them) and if it does not work out, there is you still in the picture. 2. Solutions, you better man up and tell her about what she is doing, let her feel that she can't boss you around and treat you like some puppy that she can go to you if she wants to, but then if she does not need you as if there is no "you". The best thing is to show her that she cannot continue treating you like this, she is doing this because you allow her to do this to you... look at yourself, you sound so hopelessly in love with her and she does not see that - all she sees in you is that your feelings for her as a weakness that she can treat with with no respect like that. 3. My opinion of her is within the response i gave above. She is what she is because you allow her to treat you like that.

I'm sorry you're having a bad time with this. It sounds like she is trying to start a fight with you so you will break up with her. So she doesn't have to feel bad about her feelings for her ex-boyfriend. Sit her down, face-to-face and just ask her what she wants. It is unhealthy to be in a relationship with someone that has their heart somewhere else. All you can do at this point is just ask her what she wants. If you have to walk away after that, then in the long run it would be better for you. A person can't hold onto another that doesn't really want to be in a relationship with them.

You can never know what is going on in her mind unless she telld you clearly.Try to understand her seriously without jumping on conclusions.Have you ever seen her taking more interest in her ex bf than in you?If yes,then try to know the reasons.May be they have settled the issues between them.Ask her directly to express her heart.And if she is again in love with her ex bf,then leave her to have her own way.There are a lot of girls who may be good gf of yours.If I were you,I would have done the same.

I have to say that girl don't worth you to love,if she really love you,eventhough her ex-boyfriend come back to find her,she wouldn't changed her mind.I hope you can accept the truth and get out from the messy affair.I belive that you will meet a girl who fited you in the future.

When i read your story i really think that she dosen't love you or deserve you.when she had a break off with her ex your company must have made her feel better now when things are alright and her ex is again in contact with her she wants to go back to her past.if she really loves you she would have tried to understand your feelings instead of yelling at you.you be strong and let her not use you just ask her if she is interested in continuing a relationship with you.this is just my opinion its up to you what you have to do