Men can just be dogs.......................

men are dogs... - Men can be animals....
Mexico
February 28, 2013 9:30am CST
Sorry I love men.. but many are just dogs.... I walked to open air market last night, to get a few things. And a very cute guy, asked me where I lived. 'I told him, I had the cafe at the corner. He said great, ill stop in sometime. Well, today he did. I served him a cup of coffee, and sat him at a computer. he asked to rent one hour. After a few minutes, I walked over to heat his cup of coffee ( fill it back up ) And he said,, Mami what I could do to you...... I said excuse me? he said id do you........... I said not in your wildest dreams.. I went across the street to give one of my police friends some coffee. I told him. He came over and told the guy.. we have had many problems with you. Get up leave and dont ever come back here.You are very disrespectful to this lady :( He did, get up and didnt say a word.. Men can be dogs sometimes..
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@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
28 Feb 13
Yuck! Men like that kind of piss me off. Like you have this invisible button on your stomach and a few gross statements and your legs magically spring open. When I really think about it, it's kind of sad that the view of a women would be so low as to think those kind of pick up lines would actually work. Yuck..Yuck...Ewwwww
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• Mexico
28 Feb 13
Your right, the only reason this guy came here to rent a pc was to get alook at me. if my son would have been here.. hed had said something to him for sure. men are dogs.........
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@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
28 Feb 13
Wow what a day that you had it was good that the police where so close by that you was able to leave the cafe for a few to seek help yes men can be very bad but there are a few good men out there as well
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• Mexico
28 Feb 13
Yes, there is a police sub station right across the street here at the high school. really helps me here.. I only have to give them all coffee now and then. But its worth it to me..
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• Mexico
28 Feb 13
well I hope that you don't have to deal with this type of issue ever again nice people like you don't need it when your providing a service that most can't afford in there own home
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• Mexico
28 Feb 13
Same for me, never ever happened here before. This was a first for me.
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
28 Feb 13
So basically he shoved your kindness back in your face and then some! You were only being friendly, why do some guys think it's an excuse for them to come onto you? You were only being friendly after all. I hope you seen the last of him!
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• Mexico
28 Feb 13
Sure did, Im glad Im friends with the cops across the street.. they all look out for me here.
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
28 Feb 13
Glad to hear it, some men can turn nasty when you turn them down, no matter how nicely, it's about their precious little ego's!
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• Mexico
28 Feb 13
Well, I was thinking the same thing.. after cop told me he wasnt a good guy...
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@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
28 Feb 13
I know, I know, I am married to a wonderful guy and yet he's some moments that I can't help but to say, "you're a dog!" (something to do with cleaning) lol, but that doesn't mean that I love him any less. But when it comes to just some other men, especially a random stranger like that, that is totally creepy and annoying. I'm glad you did what you did, maybe that will teach him to mind his manners and to be more respectful of women.
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• Mexico
28 Feb 13
your right there, I was married to a great guy.. for 4-5 years. Then he changed 180%. no hes a real dog...
@robspeakman (1700)
28 Feb 13
These kind of blokes really let the male gender down. As you know Maria, I have two teenage daughters. Their Mother and I have always taught them that they as good, if not better than any.man out there. They also know that they are not pieces of meat or playthings for scummy men. I should also add that their younger brother is being brought up to be a gentleman and to treat women with respect. This kind of behaviour that you were subjected to makes me sick.
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• Mexico
28 Feb 13
Sure did me as well, I told my son and he said you shouldnt have told him where you lived. I said I told him because of the business. oh well, glad the guy is gone now..
@cmania (207)
• Portugal
28 Feb 13
DOgs are a cute kind word ... the correct word it´s pervet worms :D but just some because not every man fortunately has such awfull mind. :( you should´ve kicked him in the middle girl ! c[= or maybe it´s to agressive hihi.
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• Mexico
28 Feb 13
Dogs are cute, some men are animals like dogs. They are only looking for a piece of meat. How are you dear? Any payments from mg yet? Been 2 months now....
• Mexico
4 Mar 13
Hi sis, i didnt see apm from you. What up there?
@cmania (207)
• Portugal
28 Feb 13
I´m tired :P and im trying to get some time to be here. Oh I´ll PM you
@GardenGerty (160879)
• United States
28 Feb 13
It is good that you have a police station across the street and that they are your friends. I hope this guy is not mad and come back to bother you at night some time. Evidently his cuteness does not get him very far.
• Mexico
28 Feb 13
your right, well my son is here at night. And the police station is also open all night here.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
7 Mar 13
Maria, I love dogs. Please don't say such things. Just call them a rat...rats are disgusting. That guy you met is also disgusting.
• Mexico
7 Mar 13
Now thats a great name for most of those cheating men. I like that. lets call them rats now.
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
7 Mar 13
Hello Maria, You do look stunning in the attached photo. Keep in mind that some girls actually fall for that kind of approach, even if to some others it looks sickening (like me, you and your police friend) and he just went out to try his luck. Yes it's wrong, and I don't like it either, but so many guys would not use it if it would not work, right ? Fortunately (from my perspective) you have a better respect for yourself then to give in to such low flirt attempts, and unfortunately for that guy. Have a fine day and hope you are not still upset about this !.
• Mexico
7 Mar 13
thank you very much, i do have a heart. And sometimes guys have their minds in their pants. Not good in my book.
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@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
2 Mar 13
That was not the place or the time to say anything. And besides he should have just kept his mouth shut. There are many ways to get to know someone and thats not one of them. You are good looking and I am sure men do make passes at you, but in your cafe with other people. That is just tacky.
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
2 Mar 13
Well, he shouldn't have hit on you like that. What he should have done was ask you out for lunch and talk to you in the proper manner. But thats not what he did. So he basically blew his chances of ever being with you at all. His loss.
• Mexico
2 Mar 13
your right, at least he could have spend a few minutes on pc before trying to hit on me. i was nice to him, as i gave me another cup of coffee. But.......
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• Mexico
3 Mar 13
your right, had he had done it that way, even if I had said no.., it would have bothered me so much. he was a dogggggggggggggg.
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• United States
1 Mar 13
You won't get an argument from me about how we(men) can be dogs. I definitely think that's true, and I see it a lot. However, I believe it goes both ways as well. Women have scandalous ways at times themselves, but they tend not to get called out on it as often. Sorry to hear that you had to endure a guy like that though. Unfortunately, guys like him exist all too often.
• United States
1 Mar 13
Yes really. Like I mentioned, it's more likely to be seen in men, but there are some women like that as well. I just think it can go both ways.
• Mexico
4 Mar 13
wow, never knew any woman like that. What a shame.
• Mexico
1 Mar 13
really? I only know one girl like that.. my ex sister in law. She was a dog as well...
• Indonesia
28 Feb 13
well, yes, it's very annoying moment. If I were on your situation, may be I will as angry as you. lucky you have your police friend near you to told him. hopefully, this give him a lesson, that man should respect woman and treat woman well
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• Mexico
28 Feb 13
Yes, it helps. Never know what a guy like that might do.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
1 Mar 13
I know some guys have no respect. I use to get this at the coffee shop I worked at. Some where just dogs, and I would stand there, and just think obviously you either dont get respect from your wief/ girlrfiend, or are just that big of a pig.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
3 Mar 13
We do, some men just think they are god's gift. But it shows in their personality, work ethic, and such.
• Mexico
3 Mar 13
They sure do, wish I can meet a guy who is gods gift...
• Mexico
1 Mar 13
Here most have no respect for woman. It s a shame, we deserve better treatment.
@patnopy (721)
• Philippines
1 Mar 13
i am not dogs but if you spell like this "dawg" maybe i am... not all men are like that as some woman are that too as i experience also and my comp shop..! lot of people lot of attitude many of them are annoying.. rude people don't deserved kindness and you are lucky that you have a police friend
• Mexico
1 Mar 13
Im sure some can be like that, but many men are worse. They are only looking for one thing in a woman......
• Mexico
1 Mar 13
In what way was I being rude to you? I think some where you ,is understood me here.
@patnopy (721)
• Philippines
1 Mar 13
what that kind of that thing that they looking to a woman..? LOL just joking i am just only a funny guy... its up to you to answer what is it... any way for me you can compared me to a mirror that who ever look of it see the reflection of their self, what i mean if you are one of rude people i will be rude to you too and if you are a goody person i will be the same what attitude you will be is my attitude to be... sounds fair and right..? what do you think..?
@dloveli (4366)
• United States
2 Mar 13
First off unfortunately it is men and women like that that give others not a chance. Where I live its even worse. Me and my daughter decided to take a walk and there were literally men beeping and pulling over. We stopped to get a coffee and some guy tried to pick her up. The things they say are unrepeatable. Then when a nice guy does try to say hello, its like we've been irritated so much that you take it out on everyone that tries to make conversation. In your case Maria, you're a business woman. You have assets, if you will. Not only are you attractive as a woman but your wallet becomes attractive. Its unfortunate but when people see an individual who is independent, confident, etc. For some men/women you become a meal ticket. Sad but true. I find though that everyone has experienced this type of thing once in their lifetime or know someone who has. If someone is really interested, they'll understand why you're being extra cautious. You keep doing you and when you least expect it, the right man will be by your side. I promise. Good things always come when we arent expecting it. This I know from personal experience. DML P.S. Would love to hear more about your cafe. It sounds so interesting. We dont have anything like that where Im from. Please share more...
• Mexico
2 Mar 13
sorry to hear that.. I thought it was bad here. it seems its bad all over the world. Shame on those kind a omen. I know there are some great guys out there somewhere.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
1 Mar 13
That is quite true, some are just like dogs, while other may behave like pigs, and other type of critter, these type of men often lacking of respectable home education from their mommy and daddy during childhood period to practice it on women in their society. A fact often overlook by many parent in our "modern" world.
• Mexico
1 Mar 13
Most are like pigs like you say there. I was thinking pigs rather than dogs.
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Mar 13
I agree men can be dogs. They can also be unromantic, not helpful, mean, and selfish... Sorry, having a bad marriage day. Lol. I am over it, well maybe not but I will be eventually. I get some guys that hit on me like that and they actually look offended when I turn them down and tell them I am married. Like I am being the one out of line...
• Mexico
4 Mar 13
Most can be, its funny how some are such great and respectful. And others are down right trash right from the start.
• Philippines
4 Mar 13
hahhahahah,,,,, I think that man was stunned by your charm! Though yeah, there are some men that likes to be a TOTAL JERK and they did it well like so NATURAL!,, haha,,,
• Mexico
4 Mar 13
he was a total jerk, he was very dis respectful. And I was so nice to him.
@lvchloe (49)
• China
1 Mar 13
that was really bad. fortunately, you got help in time and be safe now. bad guys just emerge now and then so be careful all the time. well, good guys are around all the time so enjoy yourself everyday.
• Mexico
1 Mar 13
yes i did, I made friends with cops here. As you say never know when you need their help. It only costs me a few smiles and a few pots of coffee per week.
@alshea (6)
1 Mar 13
Men men men men men!! It's simple logic at the end I learned. You can't live with them and you cannot live without them!! Still beats me!
• Mexico
1 Mar 13
Your kinda right. Id rather live without them.. for now that is.