Runaway Bride
By indiramarie
@indiramarie (61)
Bahrain
February 28, 2013 10:55am CST
The bride is my friend..an hour before the wedding, a friend of her soon to be husband tell her about an issue that her fiance is having an affair with another woman, and the woman was already pregnant, and she saw it with her bare eyes because she introduces herself to her(the bride). We were at the church that time waiting for her to arrive,but after how many hours of waiting she did'nt show up. So, that's the reason why she run away.
To all mylotters, do you think it's the right thing to do? oo What can you say about this situation?
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14 responses
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
28 Feb 13
She should have brought the other woman infront of that man in chruch rather than running away. Should have known the truth, atleast, somebody would have got something or justice.
@indiramarie (61)
• Bahrain
1 Mar 13
Hi there jagjit273..
She was'nt able to that because she was shocked and hurt. She was confused that time and don't know what to do. She just kept on crying and crying then left. She did'nt ask any explanation from her fiance, in fact, the guy admitted it that he is the father of that child but he told us and the parents of the bride that he love the bride and he choses her rahter than the other woman. That's it.
Thank you for the response. Happy mylotting. Good day.
@indiramarie (61)
• Bahrain
4 Mar 13
Thank you Afunnyman. I think so. She's stil moving on until now but she' s doing ok.
Good day!
@Afunnyman (55)
• Philippines
1 Mar 13
I think she made the right decision. If she rushed to the church with the preggy woman then they might make a scene and people will certainly frown at them. I salute to the bride. she has a huge patience and composure. She still managed to make a wise decision despite the situation.
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
28 Feb 13
yes, right decision, don't waste your whole life with irresponsible person that put "a big lies" within your married plan. life is only once, do what you want, decide and take the best choice. she deserve for someone better...
welcome to mylot
@indiramarie (61)
• Bahrain
1 Mar 13
You're right. The thing that he did to my friend was hurting. I think until now she still did'nt forgive the guy and she went to other country without any notice.
Thanks for the response. Good day!
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
4 Mar 13
it;s hard to forgive such as guy. hope all the best for her
@paperdolls28 (222)
• Philippines
1 Mar 13
She should have confronted her soon-to-be-husband, brought the preggy woman at the church so everyone can witness. This will give them lesser time in explaining why the wedding did not pursue.
@indiramarie (61)
• Bahrain
4 Mar 13
hi there..
You're right, it can be also a good explanation for everyone, but during that time she was so hurt and confused and miserable that's why the only thing that comes in to her mind is to run away.
Thanks paperdoll28. Have a nice day.
@priyaxxx85 (108)
• India
4 Mar 13
I think she did the right thing. Marriage is the biggest decision of one's life, it's always better to think again rather than regret later.
@indiramarie (61)
• Bahrain
4 Mar 13
Nice one. A big yes for that. =)
Thank you priyaxxx85. Have a nice day.
@technojakeb (223)
• India
1 Mar 13
Runaways bride that title just rocked
and cheating is something i dont tolerate. before running away she could have done some weet revenge to make him never forget for cheating her. and thank you lord for making her know in advance that her EX-Fiance was such a jerk. the bride was really lucky you know?
@indiramarie (61)
• Bahrain
4 Mar 13
Cheating really sucks. You're on the verge that all of your trust and love is already given then suddenly it will disappear with just a snap. God is good because He let our friend know about the news even if it is on her wedding day, at least she made the right decision in running away. Yes, very much lucky. We also told her about being lucky.
Thank you for the response technojakeb. Have a nice day.
@Glispax (2)
•
1 Mar 13
It's hard to find out why a friend comes up with this issue in such a bad timing. She should have told the bride before the wedding day. The bride was right to postpone the wedding, but she could at least have sent someone to the church to say that there would not be ceremony, and everybody could go home, instead of waiting for hours. The fact is, she can't marry a person she doesn't trust anymore.
@indiramarie (61)
• Bahrain
4 Mar 13
Yes, you're right. But it can be still a good timing, at least the news didn't show up after the wedding. The parents of the bride announced that the wedding is cancelled.
Thank you for the response Glispax. Have a nice day.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
1 Mar 13
Was she sure that her fiance had had an affair? Your poor friend, what an awful thing to find out and what an awful thing for a person to do to their fiancee. It's a good thing she found out before the wedding rather than after.
@indiramarie (61)
• Bahrain
4 Mar 13
Yes, she's sure of it. Because the guy admitted it that he is the father of the child but not to her, to the family only of the bride and to us, her friends. We're also very upset and mad that time because we can't imagine that why this day our friend knew about this news. But, you're right, it's a good thing that she knew before they get married.
Thanks for the response. Good day!
@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
8 Mar 13
Well, I can't say it's absolutely right, but in her situation, I think this is what she should do. Though some people said, she should confront them, in that situation, I suppose it's hard to still talk to them face to face, especially for a woman. But I do wish your friend will overcome this one day, and carry on with her life happily. Hope she'll always find someone she loves and loves her one day.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
8 Mar 13
Thanks for this discussion, welcome to mylot.
Yes it is the right decision.
@joanamarienieva (160)
• Philippines
1 Mar 13
Ouch :(
I can't imagine myself in that situation. yeah that's the right thing. Why will you marry someone who cannot be trusted anymore, who lied to you, who hurt you. You will just suffer being with him.
@indiramarie (61)
• Bahrain
4 Mar 13
Yeah, you're right joanamarienieva. It's just sad and hurting because you can see to the guy that he is very trusting and caring and loving and everything, and it really shows the way he act and the way he treated our friend. But unfortunately, we're only deceived by it. Maybe this is just a part of this whole life thing, and we just have to move on and let it go.
Thanks for the response. Have a nice day.
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
28 Feb 13
I would have also called off and postpone the wedding. I will bring everyone important (my fiance, the girl, his friend, and both our parents). I want to get to the bottom of things, just to be sure that the kid is indeed my fiance's. And I want everyone to know that I am not the one who is breaking up the wedding, that I have a very valid reason for doing so and that I am the victim here. I deserve to know the truth from both of them, I deserve that.
@indiramarie (61)
• Bahrain
1 Mar 13
hi there..
The wedding was postponed, and no confronttoation happened. The guy admitted to us and to the parent of the bride that the child was his.
There is no meeting until now with the ex couple. But my friend is doing ok now, she started her life in a new place. =)
Thank you. Good day!
@indiramarie (61)
• Bahrain
1 Mar 13
hi there..
Thanks for the response.
The news was correct. In fact guy admitted it to us and to the parents of the bride. But until now there is no conforntation happened between them.
@indiramarie (61)
• Bahrain
4 Mar 13
hi there murarig..
Yes you're right..But, we can't be sure in anything or whatever it is. Like this guy, he really is treating our friend nicely and carefully with love and respect, even us we saw that, that' s why we just can't imagine that this happened. So in short, we cannot say that this person is trusting or whatever it is even if he/ she is laready showing good traits, we should always still be open minded and accept any possibilities or unexpected things to happen.
Thank you for the response. Have a nice day.
@Nandita2013 (132)
• India
1 Mar 13
I think what your friend did was absolutely right.she was lucky that she came to knw about this before her wedding else it would have been more hurting for her.but did the parents know about why she ran away or everyone wil blame her only.hows friend doing now?
@indiramarie (61)
• Bahrain
4 Mar 13
Hi there Nandita2013..
Yes, the parents of the bride knew why she ran away, because when the bride didn't show up, she call to one of our friend that she will not do the wedding because the guy is in a relationship with other woman and the girl is pregnant. Our friend inform the parents then they are the one who confronted the guy about the news and he admitted it. It's good that she knew these before the wedding like what you said, it would be more hurting for he if she knew it after. She's doing good now, but still moving on.
Thank you for the response. Have a nice day.
