Should I broke my Relationship? Help please

You seem paranoid. You are not even sure they are going to get together. Also, it is bad to ask other people to decide if you break up with your girl friend or not. That is your decision alone. Although, we are willing to help you make a better decision as much as we can. Think clearly and not let your feelings dictate what you do. Do what is right. Don't jump to conclusions and let your paranoia get away with you.

Just enquire from her and know what she is up to. Its normal for her to deny, give her the benefit of doubt.

Hi Rahul, Its only facebook friends. it is only your assumption that they are getting close again. Well let me tell you, I am friends with my ex in facebook and it does not bother my bf, because he knows i won't go as far as reliving the relationship i had with my ex before. The only reason we are friends on facebook is that we have moved past the hurts and the issues we have had and are now "friends" or civil to each other. I see though that you feel she does not love you as much as you do love her. I wonder why you feel that? Is that because she is not treating you as any gf would? Is she openly not showing signs of having that interests in you? Why would you even want to break up with her only because you think she does not love you and is getting close with her ex. This feeling you have is only your own doing. Sorry to say this but you should really give her a chance to love you. Talk to her and tell her your insecurities and let her do things to make it up to you... If she openly tells you that she does not want to be in a relationship with you anymore, then I guess we know what to do/ but until then, I hope you would be able to sort out your feelings with her, and feelings toward her making friends on facebook.

I think if she is telling you that she is just friends with him and that she is telling you that she loves you as a lover then you should trust her, but maybe you should let her know how you feel. Let her know that you want to just know if she is just going to be friends with her ex and ask her if she still has feelings for him. But just because she has her ex on her facebook does not mean that she still has feelings for him, unless she tells you that she has feelings for him. I don't think that you should break up with her though, just because she is befriending her ex on facebook. There should be trust in a relationship, and if you can't have trust, then what do you have?

if you really love her and want to be with her, you should invite her to sit down and talk, really talk. Talk about how you feel for her the love, the pain and everything that goes with it. Then ask her if she could love you back, then stop being friends with her ex because its hurting you, but if she couldn't love you back then let her go. You can't hold unto her without destroying both yourselves. They say if you love someone let them go and if he/she is really for you they'll always come back in your life. You just have to be patient.

Hello Rahul, It would be better to clarify things with your GF first then jump to any conclusion sometimes what we think is not the truth. You need to talk to her about this. I know it hurts but it would hurt more if what you are thinking is not the actuality.

both you guys should have a talk about this problem, ask her directly why she did contact closer to her ex,...if she really wants to go back with her ex, then let her go, if not, don't need to think too much about this problem...

you mention that she love her exbf, how do you know that she is still inlove with her x?..did she tell you that?...or are they still in love with each other?... then what are you to them? or what are you to your girlfriend?... talk to her, and clarify everything so that you will know if you should leave her with her ex.

They are friends on facebook,does not mean that she still loves him. You two should sit down and have a heart to heart communication

well, you know her better than everybody in mylot. share with her about your feelings and ask her to share with you about the sort of feeling that has for her ex boyfriend. well, maybe she is just friend and will not accept him as bf again and that is your fear. it is better to talk to her and share feelings with her. make her understand that you really love her. if she loves her ex bf and wants to be with her, and she tell you that,, then let her go but believe that if she will be yours will be back to you again with love.

I wouldnt say leave her asap! I would say that maby you should give her an ultimatim...its either you cut him off your facebook friends or your going to leave. I mean if you think there is something going on then you shouldnt waste your time with her. I wouldnt. Life is soo short and you want to be happy and live a great life then she needs to make up her mind! Thats how I see it. good luck to you!

Why dont you both have a detailed talk regarding this.ask her if she still has feelings for her ex and what was the reason for her to make her ex as her facebook friend again.if u love her truly and she does it too why to break your relationship for that ex guy.think and act

you are same on my wife as my ex-gf are in my FB and we are only having some chit chat we are done and love relation but at least we are good friend as i always tell to them if we are going to broke up at least we maybe a good friend as my wife know that too but end the end she block 1 of my ex and the other 1 is remove, because of jealous matter... why you don't ask him first? that not to talk to them again because deep inside she's hurting you... after that think what is the best solution for it

This looks to me to be a one way street! And she is making you feel guilty for it. I would say leave straight away and cut all relations. I understand this can be easier said then done but TIME my friend is the biggest healer and people eventually now matter how bad the situation is do move on! It will be really painful at 1st but to look on the bright side I would say to get that over and done with rather then later on in life. Have a great day!