Emotional blackmail...

We strongly disagreed with it. But as far as I know, it's like having a taken-for-granted relationship and using your partner for a selfish reason while your girl deeply loved you. And then, after some time, you meet a girl you love most. Then you both build a relationship. And after months or years, just to find out that your ex-partner's situation had only repeated. But this time, you are the one taken-for-granted. :-( So it's really bad playing with emotions, as if, what if they plays on your own.

Parents do i it to the children all the time and children have been doing this like for ever. Well, the truth is it cannot be done all the time and people tend to out grow this phase when they can be emotionally blackmailed. If someone persists with this relationships are bound to breakdown.

I think as soon as people start talking about love, many of them are, sooner or later blackmailing eachother as well. Out of fear or just to get what they want. I don't justify that either, it happenend to many many times. How I feel? A good reason to not be with that person anymore, since it only causes a lot of stress and it has nothing to do with love. Also ... people who do blackmail you will never sacrifice or do anything back in return.