Your first lover got married?

that is a great moment and cause of worry and i hope it never happens and i find it totally weird in first place

Well, if I knew then that he got married that time, I might feel bad about it. But of course, there is nothing I can do about it but wish him well.

Well, if he or she is married, then just let it go. Time will fly and we all know that hurt will heal. And I have not experienced that before, too.

I think that would be a very sad thing to go through. I know I would be depressed for awhile but then I would have to move on with my life. I would hope that I could find another person that I could love and that would love me just as much. It would be hard to get past the fact though that for a time I would have hoped that my first lover and I could be together.

if i am going to bump into my ex with another girl, the feeling would be awkward. but of course i will try to be casual and say hello to them. since my ex and i are friends. and honestly, i will get hurt. im not that over him yet... :)

Actually, i have experienced that kind of scenario but not exactly like seeing him with other girl in the theater.... well, as for my part, i knew it thru internet...specifically FACEBOOK..i just saw their pics... worst memory... and imagine they've already been together while we're still on.. men!!!

Hey dear, I actually have seen my first crush from school when I did not even have a serious girlfriend yet, and she already had a child to bear. In a way I was happy, especially since I don't want a child so fast (maybe not ever) so not at all upset to see someone else married her.

One of my ex-boyfriends asked me if I wanted to help him pay for his wedding with another girl I thought he was joking, but he said: "My fiancee and I don't have much money and we ask all of our friends for help. You are my friend so I also ask you" As a joke I asked him if I was invited to wedding and he said no! I wouldn't have gone to the wedding if he had invited me I was just joking. He wanted my money but not my company I told my friends that he had asked me to help him pay for his wedding and they laughed and said and they weren't surpriced because he always asks everyone for money. I didn't feel sad to hear that he was getting married. I had another boyfriend at that time and I didn't miss my ex-boyfriend at all, because I was much happier in my new relationship.

My first boyfriend married after 3 months ago when we broke up, at first it really hurt me because I still love him during that time. I even saw them walking in the mall holding hands and looks very happy to each other, good thing my sister was there and comfort me. After few months I met someone(my husband now) who help me to get through all those pains in my heart. Now I am happily married and my first boyfriend marriage was a big mess and lasted only for a year.

get the married you?