Enjoy the process of life, we will find more joy

China
March 2, 2013 2:59am CST
The most important thing of our life is not the result but the process we are experiencing. We should always remember that we lead our life not leaded by it. How to lead a beautiful life? First, I think we should have a calm heart.No matter how quikly the outer world changes,there should be a quiet place in our heart. We feel happy not because of what we have but because that we never put all our eyes on them. Enjoy the process of life, we will find more joy.
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@rubyroy (824)
• India
3 Mar 13
The aim of our life and not the result,that must be what you are intending,yes that is what matters more.If our aim is to better our motives,then even if you have setbacks you needn't be disappointed,but you can still try and improve yourself.Your intention should be good,then you will get a positive result even if there is a delay.
• China
28 Mar 13
We should have an aim in our life, a person without an aim in his life just like a sailor without a compass, that is very dangerous.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
3 Mar 13
Yes, we should always be calm and embrace all life has to offer. We should still be positive on every challenges that we are facing. Life is very short to live. Just stay calm and optimistic. Life is a gift and life is so wonderful if we have a positive outlook in life.
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• China
28 Mar 13
A positive outlook in life if very important for us if we want to be happy and if we want to have a meaningful life, we create our own life.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
2 Mar 13
this is true, many has often talked about how we should see our life, not for the destination but the travel. :D OI think when we are able to see the wondrous things and moments in our lives (our travels, the process, and so on) we would also feel that our life is indeed perfected in its own way. we have already received our successes by the process we go through in our lives as we try to achieve what it is that we want in our lives.
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• China
28 Mar 13
That's true, sometimes we need not pay more attention to the destination we arrived, because it is not always happy but also sorrow, if we try to know how to enjoy the process maybe we will receive more.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
2 Mar 13
Life is short but we still need to cherish everyday we've got.I try to make my day spent meaningfully.It's been nice to hear what you say,i'll be better person since work hard in young days.We can get more joy as life goes on.
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• China
10 Mar 13
You are right jricky, since we are young all of us should try to make our life meaningful, then there will be no regret when we are old.
@else22 (4317)
• India
2 Mar 13
From my own experiences I sometimes feel just the opposite.I feel life leads us,not the other way round.Life has its own ups and downs and often we can't convert downs into ups no matter how hard we try.Yet I agree with you that we need to have a calm heart.A heart unaffected by whatever is going on in the outer world.We can attain it if we develop the habit of watching incidents without being attached to them.After all we undergo circumstances that are unwanted and unexpected.Trying to change them would amount to feeling affected by them.We won't be able to remain calm.
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• China
28 Mar 13
I like what you side that life has its own ups and downs and we can't control it, however, we can control our mood and heart don't be affected by it.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
2 Mar 13
Hi, you are right. We should enjoy the process of life. Everyone tries to find happiness in life. We have to struggle for living life. But we should remember that we should help others for make them happy and their happy faces makes us happy. We should not lose hope in difficult times. And face every difficulty with patience and positive attitude. We should try to enjoy every moment or enjoy process of life.
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• China
28 Mar 13
Hi, I appreciate your positive attitude, you are right that we can get happiness from helping others. If we want, we can find joy anywhere.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
2 Mar 13
I think that the best way to make your life enjoy to the fullest is having to accept all the struggles and trials that came along and learn how to pick up all the broken pieces together and pray that you may be able to make your life better than it was before.
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• China
10 Mar 13
Hi, jenny, that's true. If we can accpet all the struggles and trials happend around us, we will be strong enough and happy to live in this world.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
2 Mar 13
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Yes u are absolutely right, we should always enjoy the process of life to understand what is the reality behind it which will become the source of our pleasure n happiness. We have to stay happy and cheerful and the world will seem a great place to live for us. What say?
• China
10 Mar 13
Thanks for your comment subhojit, only we can give ourselves happy, and if all of us feel happy in this world it is really a great place to live for us.