ego in love is good or bad

expecting is just a waste of time ,as both of person think same , and main thing is that when expectation break it hurt a lot

At some point of time I would say being possessive in a relationship is easier than being egoist. Ego will just do nothing but destroy your relationship. Being egoistic makes another person hang on edge making the egoist in the relationship to understand and adjust. And it is very difficult to change a person full of this behavior. They are also very dominating

You people really did that? In my case we both always try to call first and it always is a competition who calls first because then for whole year whoever calls first can say that "It was me who wished you". There are times when you need to take care of your self respect, but do remember there is always a thin line between ego and self respect please do not let your ego spoil your relationship.

well ego does really good and bad things in a relation. but this kinda checking who wishes first is kinda weird well one can call the other and just wish. and you wish back there is nothing to be so egoish about. so leave it. just love her like hell make her feel secure and thats it. she will never leave you!